Baz\u0131 kad\u0131nlar sahiplenilmeyi sever, baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc… Baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise sadece romantizme ilgi duyar.\u00a0Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir toplant\u0131da gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, erkeklerin ba\u011flanmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6nce \u00e7ok ilgili g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcp ard\u0131ndan k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede ortadan kaybolduklar\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131yordu \u015fikayet ederek. Onu dinleyen bir erkek \u015f\u00f6yle yan\u0131t verdi: \u201cKabul edin ki siz de romantik, size \u015fiirler yazacak erkeklere gitmiyorsunuz.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

. Nerede yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131, haval\u0131, \u00e7apk\u0131n ve g\u00fcvenilmez bir adam var, gidip onu se\u00e7iyorsunuz. Sonra da gitti diye a\u011fl\u0131yorsunuz.\u201d\u00a0 Bu do\u011fru muydu? Ger\u00e7ekten biz kad\u0131nlar erke\u011fimizi nas\u0131l se\u00e7iyorduk? Yoksa ma\u00e7o tabir edilen erkeklerin cazibesine kap\u0131l\u0131p sonra da ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmekten zevk mi al\u0131yorduk?\u00a0 Bunun do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 umarak Ayna Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k\u2019tan Psikolog Dr. Ay\u015feg\u00fcl \u00d6nk Eray\u2019\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131k. E\u015f se\u00e7imindeki kriterlerimizin insanl\u0131k kadar eski oldu\u011funu ve daha bir\u00e7ok \u00f6nemli detay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendik. Kad\u0131nlar partner se\u00e7imlerini hangi dinamiklerin etkisinde kalarak yap\u0131yor? Psikolojik, sosyolojik, biyolojik, evrimsel ve ekonomik fakt\u00f6rler s\u00f6z konusu ve bu konuda yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir\u00e7ok ara\u015ft\u0131rma var. E\u015f se\u00e7iminde farkl\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fma konular\u0131 olmakla beraber en \u00e7ok \u201cevrim kuram\u0131\u201d ve \u201csosyal rol kuram\u0131\u201d ile ilgili \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Kad\u0131n ve erkeklerin e\u015f se\u00e7me kriterleri farkl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6steriyor. Kad\u0131nlar k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131 say\u0131da do\u011furabilece\u011fi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n bak\u0131m\u0131 ve gelece\u011fi i\u00e7in gerekli maddi manevi kaynaklar\u0131 garanti alt\u0131na almay\u0131 ama\u00e7l\u0131yor. \u0130\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu k\u00fclt\u00fcre g\u00f6re ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, dominant erkekler ar\u0131yor. Ayr\u0131ca erke\u011fin uzun soluklu bir ili\u015fkiye istekli olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve ne kadar \u00f6zverili olabilece\u011fini de de\u011ferlendiriyor. Se\u00e7ti\u011fi erke\u011fin ailesinin de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 koruyacak g\u00fcce sahip olmas\u0131 \u00f6nemli.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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