D\u00fc\u015f\u00fck karne notlar\u0131na ebeveyn olarak nas\u0131l tepki vermeli? Nelere dikkat etmeli? \u0130\u015fte cevab\u0131…<\/p>\n

Ebeveynler i\u00e7in heyecanla beklenen karne haftas\u0131na girmi\u015f bulunmaktay\u0131z. Fakat bazen y\u00fcz g\u00fcld\u00fcren karne notlar\u0131 bazen de hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 ya\u015fatabiliyor. E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun notlar\u0131 bekledi\u011finizden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fckse bu duruma \u00fcz\u00fclebilirsiniz ancak bunun sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z tutumlar \u015feklinde \u00e7ocu\u011funuza yans\u0131mas\u0131na izin vermemelisiniz.<\/p>\n

Liv Hospital Klinik Psikoloji Uzman\u0131 Ceren Ayd\u0131n anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n

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\u0130\u015fte dikkat etmeniz gerekenler…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun temel ihtiyac\u0131 sizin taraf\u0131n\u0131zdan her ko\u015fulda de\u011ferli oldu\u011funu hissetmektir. Karnesi nas\u0131l olursa olsun \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu ko\u015fulsuz kabul etti\u011finizi ona hissettirin.<\/p>\n

– Tek ileti\u015fim g\u00fcndeminizin notlar, s\u0131navlar ve dersler olmamas\u0131na \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin. Bir araya her geldi\u011finizde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tek \u015fey ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak olmas\u0131n ya da \u00e7ocu\u011funuza sadece derslerle ilgili sorular sormaktan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n.<\/p>\n

– D\u00fc\u015f\u00fck notun sebeplerini de\u011ferlendirin, neler yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla beraber tart\u0131\u015f\u0131p karar verin.<\/p>\n

– Bir sonraki d\u00f6nem i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma d\u00fczenini ve motivasyonunu g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irin.<\/p>\n

– \u00d6zel e\u011fitim almas\u0131 gereken bir durum varsa, bir \u00f6zel e\u011fitim uzman\u0131na ba\u015fvurun.<\/p>\n

– Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fiklikler oldu\u011funu fark ederseniz bir uzmana ba\u015fvurun.<\/p>\n

– De\u011ferlendirme yaparken not odakl\u0131 de\u011fil, s\u00fcre\u00e7 odakl\u0131 olun. Notlar\u0131na g\u00f6re cezaland\u0131rmay\u0131n ya da a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmeyin.<\/p>\n

– Maddi \u00f6d\u00fclleri de\u011fil, duygusal \u00f6d\u00fclleri tercih edin. Sar\u0131lmak, onu ne kadar sevdi\u011finizi s\u00f6ylemek ya da beraber bir g\u00fcn planlamak en g\u00fczel hediye olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– Tatil d\u00f6neminde dinlenmesine izin verin, notlar\u0131n\u0131 telafi etmesi i\u00e7in aceleci ve bask\u0131c\u0131 olmay\u0131n, notlar\u0131n her zaman telafisi oldu\u011funu \u00f6ncelikle siz unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

– Onu su\u00e7lamay\u0131n, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeyin, alay etmeyin, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

– Bunu size ifade edemese de onun da \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, kendini ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetti\u011fini hi\u00e7 unutmay\u0131n. \u0130yi olan notlar\u0131n\u0131n da \u00fczerinde durun, onlar\u0131 da takdir edin.<\/p>\n

– Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ailelerinden korktu\u011fu i\u00e7in yalan s\u00f6yledi\u011fini, evden ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, intihara y\u00f6neldi\u011fini unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

– Konuyu e\u015fler aras\u0131 kavgaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeyin, bu \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kendisini su\u00e7lu hissettirir.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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