Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 yazarken bir yandan da m\u00fckemmellik mi yoksa ba\u015far\u0131 m\u0131 diye sormadan edemedim kendime. Peki insan\u0131 en \u00e7ok ne mutlu eder dersiniz?<\/p>\n

\u00d6ncelikle sizi en \u00e7ok neyin mutlu etti\u011fini ke\u015ffetmelisiniz. Baz\u0131 insanlar m\u00fckemmel olmay\u0131 ba\u015ftan reddederler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilirler ki m\u00fckemmel olmak onlar i\u00e7in y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131 bir s\u00fcrece neden olur ve hayat enerjisini al\u0131r. Baz\u0131 insanlar ise hayatlar\u0131ndaki her \u015feyin en m\u00fckemmel ve kusursuz \u015fekilde ilerlemesini ister. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu ki\u015fileri de m\u00fckemmellik mutlu eder. E\u011fer m\u00fckemmelli\u011fin sizi mutlu etti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z tavsiyelerimize kulak vermeniz de fayda var.<\/p>\n

M\u00fckemmellik zaten ba\u015far\u0131 gerektirir. Bunu unutmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Ve bunlar\u0131n hepsi de tabi ki emek ister. Hedefleri olan insanlar ayr\u0131nt\u0131 ile bakar i\u015flerine, ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar ise m\u00fckemmelli\u011fi, m\u00fckemmellik ise ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 getirir.<\/p>\n

Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemeyin, bu tebess\u00fcm bile olsa!<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda \u00f6nce insan olmay\u0131 hedef koyun kendinize, t\u00fcm canl\u0131lara \u00f6zel bir de\u011fer verin, onlara \u00f6zel olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hissettirin. Bunu \u00f6nce kendiniz i\u00e7in yap\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu sizi mutlu ederken bir yandan da hem sizin hayata bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek, hem de insanlar\u0131n size bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek.<\/p>\n

\u00c7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fi ve etraf\u0131n\u0131zdaki insanlar\u0131 sevin, en az\u0131ndan sevecek bir \u015feyler bulun kendinize. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumda izlmeye doyamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir T\u00fcrk filim vard\u0131 “Hayat sevince g\u00fczel ” diye Zeynep De\u011firmencio\u011flu’nun oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131, o filmi enerjiniz bitti\u011finde mutlaka izleyin… Gece kom\u015fusunun d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc y\u00fcz\u00fcnden uyuyamayan teyzenin, kulaklar\u0131n\u0131n duymas\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 mutlu olmas\u0131\u00a0gerekti\u011fini izleyin.\u00a0 \u00a0Sevgi her \u015feyin panzehiridir unutmay\u0131n…<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey i\u00e7in g\u00fcn koymay\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz ve karar ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z an do\u011fru and\u0131r.<\/p>\n

K\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa uygun zamanda mutlaka ifade edin. Ama \u00f6nce dinleyin. M\u00fckemmel insanlar\u0131n en \u00f6nemli ortak \u00f6zelli\u011fi iyi bir dinleyici olup ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayatlar\u0131ndan ders \u00e7\u0131karabilmeleridir.<\/p>\n

M\u00fckemmel olmay\u0131 kendinize hedef yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak hayat\u0131 kendinize zehir etmek yerine, yani mecbur hissetmek yerine, bunu bir ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imi haline getirin.<\/p>\n

K\u0131sa form\u00fcl ise \u015f\u00f6yle;<\/p>\n

Sevmek ayr\u0131nt\u0131y\u0131 gerektirir, ayr\u0131nt\u0131 m\u00fckemmeli\u011fi getirir, m\u00fckemmellik ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131, ba\u015far\u0131 ise mutlulu\u011fu verir size…<\/p>\n

Sevgi = Ayr\u0131nt\u0131 = M\u00fckemmellik = Ba\u015far\u0131 = Mutluluk<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ama\u00e7 ise\u00a0MUTLU OLMAK<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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