Anne ve babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar ile ilgili\u00a0en b\u00fcy\u00fck arzular\u0131na bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00a0\u00e7ocu\u011funun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve mutlu olmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fini g\u00f6zlemliyoruz.\u00a0\u00a0Hayattan keyif alan, pozitif d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, insan ili\u015fkilerinde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan, ini\u015f-\u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flarda y\u0131k\u0131lmayan \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmek, t\u00fcm ebeveynlerin iste\u011fi olsa da bunu yapabilmek asl\u0131nda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck detaylarda sakl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00a0Bunu ba\u015farabilmede\u00a0hem manevi hem de maddi fakt\u00f6rler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fiminde \u00f6nemli rol oynar. \u201cMutlu \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u201d form\u00fcl\u00fc rahat ve mutlu bir hamilelikten, ergenlik d\u00f6nemine kadar uzan\u0131yor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklara\u00a0iyimser d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme becerisi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flardan itibaren \u00f6\u011fretildi\u011fi zaman\u00a0ileride kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131labilinecek depresyon, kayg\u0131 bozuklu\u011fu, intihar e\u011filimi gibi ruhsal s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 \u00f6nlenebilen sa\u011flam yeti\u015fkinler olurlar. Mutlu \u00e7ocuk demek, \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131n\u0131 Polyannac\u0131l\u0131k oynayarak ge\u00e7irmesi anlam\u0131na gelmez. Ya\u015famdan zevk alan, kendini oyalayabilen, \u00e7evresindeki olaylara ve canl\u0131lara duyarl\u0131, arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile iyi bir ileti\u015fime sahip, empati kurabilen, duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini do\u011fru bir \u015fekilde ifade eden, karamsar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere alternatifler \u00fcretip olaylar\u0131 do\u011fru yorumlayan \u00e7ocuklara mutlu \u00e7ocuk diyebiliriz. Ayr\u0131ca, mutlu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda\u00a0tekrar denemek ve d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcklerinde aya\u011fa kalkmak i\u00e7in motivasyonlar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu durum, hayatlar\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar. Bu sayede yeteneklerini ya\u015famlar\u0131na yans\u0131t\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Karamsar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere sahip \u00e7ocuklar ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ve ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 sebeplere y\u00fcklerler. Mesela, \u00e7ocuk bir s\u0131navdan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck bir not ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda o dersi hi\u00e7 anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, aptal veya beceriksiz oldu\u011funu, y\u00fcksek bir not ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise \u00f6\u011fretmenin o g\u00fcnl\u00fck kolay sordu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir.<\/p>\n

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Peki, mutlu bir \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin form\u00fcl\u00fc var m\u0131d\u0131r?<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk ile do\u011fdu\u011fu andan itibaren g\u00fcvenli bir ba\u011f kurmak gerekir. Kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za al\u0131p, g\u00f6z temas\u0131nda bulunup, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek konu\u015ftu\u011funuzda o ba\u011f kurulmaya ba\u015flar. Bol bol kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za alarak, fiziksel olarak da sevginizi g\u00f6sterebilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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- Bebekleri veya \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 mutlu etmenin en kolay yolu onunla oyun oynamakt\u0131r. \u0130lla ki bir amac\u0131 olmas\u0131 gerekmez. \u00d6nemli olan beraberce keyifli vakit ge\u00e7irmektir. Aktif bir \u015fekilde beraberce oyunda yer alman\u0131z, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyay\u0131 alg\u0131lamas\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r, hayal d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 geni\u015fletir ve enerjisini do\u011fru bir yere bo\u015faltmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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  - Kazanmay\u0131 ve kaybetmeyi, kendini g\u00fcvende hissetti\u011fi aile ortam\u0131nda oyunlarla \u00f6\u011fretirseniz, \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattaki ini\u015f \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flara kar\u015f\u0131 direncini artt\u0131rabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    - \u00c7ocuklara ya\u015flar\u0131na uygun konularda se\u00e7im \u015fanslar\u0131 tan\u0131mak \u00f6zg\u00fcveni destekleyici olacakt\u0131r.<\/li>\n
    - Ona kar\u015f\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6vg\u00fclerin zaman\u0131nda olmas\u0131na \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterebilirsiniz.<\/li>\n
    - Olaylar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcmser yorumlara alternatifler \u00fcretebilirsiniz.<\/li>\n
    - Yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamay\u0131 ve ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretebilirsiniz.<\/li>\n
    - \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu ele\u015ftirirken genellemelerden ka\u00e7\u0131narak, sadece o durum veya davran\u0131\u015fa \u00f6zel bir yorum yapabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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      - Beraber payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zamanlar\u0131 sadece zorunluluklar veya sorumluluklar (\u00f6devler, kurslar, vs.) ile harcamadan, size \u00f6zel keyifli organizasyonlar (evde sinema keyfi, beraber yemek yapmak, bal\u0131k tutmak, \u015fehir i\u00e7inde ke\u015fif gezilerine \u00e7\u0131kmak vs.) yapabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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