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\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 okula ba\u015flayacak anne-babalar, okullar\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131na az zaman kala stres ya\u015f\u0131yor. Ve bu stresle birlikte yap\u0131lan baz\u0131 hatalar, \u00e7ocu\u011fun okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131ndan mutlulu\u011funa kadar bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi olumsuz etkiliyor.<\/p>\n

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Okula ba\u015flamak, \u00e7ocuk a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan olduk\u00e7a stresli bir durum. Evden ayr\u0131lmak, tatilin bitmesi ve sorumluluklar\u0131n artmas\u0131 gibi nedenler, stresinin alt yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015ftururken \u00fczerine bir de ondan beklenen performans\u0131n eklenmesi \u00e7ocu\u011fun zor anlar ya\u015famas\u0131na neden oluyor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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- Anne- babalar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f tutum ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 da \u00e7ocu\u011fun okul stresini art\u0131rabiliyor ve sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 \u00e7ok olumsuz olabiliyor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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  - Bu nedenle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 okula ba\u015flayacak olan anne-babalar\u0131n Psikiyatri Uzman\u0131 Dr. \u00d6mer Oluk\u2019<\/strong>un \u00f6nerilerine kulak vermesinde fayda olabilir. \u0130\u015fte Dr. Oluk\u2019un okul stresinden korunmak ve daha verimli bir e\u011fitim-\u00f6\u011fretim y\u0131l\u0131 i\u00e7in rehber niteli\u011fi ta\u015f\u0131yan o \u00f6nerileri:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    Okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n mutlulu\u011funun \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mesine izin vermeyin:<\/strong> Onu rahatlatmak ve stresini en aza indirebilmek i\u00e7in \u201cBu hayattaki en \u00f6nemli \u015fey mutluluk\u201d fikrini benimsedi\u011finizi \u00e7ocu\u011funuza inand\u0131r\u0131n. Ancak bunu yaparken, bu fikrinizin sadece s\u00f6zde kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla da ona g\u00f6stermelisiniz. Derslerinde bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sinirlenip, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza tepki g\u00f6stermek yerine, bu durumun \u00fcstesinden gelebilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesini sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    Sevginizin bir nedene ba\u011fl\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ona g\u00f6sterin:<\/strong> \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun en \u00e7ok sizin sevginize ihtiyac\u0131 var. Sevginizin, okuldaki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131yla orant\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi ise b\u00fcy\u00fck bir stres ya\u015famas\u0131na neden oluyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bile sevilmeyece\u011fi, ele\u015ftirilece\u011fi ve ceza alaca\u011f\u0131 endi\u015fesine kap\u0131l\u0131yor. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun mutlu ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir okul d\u00f6nemi ge\u00e7irmesini istiyorsan\u0131z sevginizin okuldaki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131yla ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ona mutlaka hissettirin. Y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil, yap\u0131c\u0131 ele\u015ftirilerde bulunun. Yo\u011fun ele\u015ftiri \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini zedeleyebiliyor. Okulda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 olumsuz bir durum kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda pani\u011fe kap\u0131lmadan olumlu y\u00f6nlerini ona hat\u0131rlatarak durumu g\u00f6rmesini sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli y\u00fcz\u00fcne vurmay\u0131n: \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu s\u0131n\u0131ftaki arkada\u015flar\u0131yla belli bir d\u00fczeye kadar k\u0131yaslamak olumlu sonu\u00e7lara neden olabiliyor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    \u00d6rne\u011fin fiziksel geli\u015fiminin k\u0131yaslanmas\u0131, arkada\u015flar\u0131yla uyumu, ders ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6zellikle \u00f6\u011fretmenlerin g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc al\u0131narak yap\u0131lacak k\u0131yaslamalar \u00e7ocu\u011funuz a\u00e7\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan pozitif etkiler do\u011furabiliyor. Ancak bu durum olumsuz bir ele\u015ftiri boyutuna ula\u015f\u0131rsa ya da arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ondan ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ve \u00fcst\u00fcn oldu\u011fu vurgulan\u0131rsa \u00e7ocuk bunu \u201cAilem beni sevmiyor.\u201d \u015feklinde alg\u0131layabiliyor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    \u00d6d\u00fcl\u00fc siz olun:<\/strong> \u00c7ocu\u011fun olumlu tutum ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6d\u00fcllendirilmesi cesaretlendirilmesi ve desteklenmesi olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemli. Ancak \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmede de maddi de\u011feri y\u00fcksek hediyelerden \u00e7ok manevi hediyelerden yana olun. \u00d6rne\u011fin birlikte sinemaya, tiyatroya ya da sevdi\u011fi bir masal kahraman\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6sterisine gidebilirsiniz. Unutmay\u0131n ki onun i\u00e7in en de\u011ferli \u00f6d\u00fcl sizinle ge\u00e7irece\u011fi zaman.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    Korkuyorsa yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmay\u0131n:<\/strong> \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6nemli bir k\u0131sm\u0131 okulun ilk g\u00fcnlerinde ailesinden ayr\u0131lma kayg\u0131s\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yor. Bu durumu ya\u015famamas\u0131 i\u00e7in at\u0131lacak en \u00f6nemli ad\u0131mlardan biri, daha okul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 gelmeden \u00e7ocu\u011fun bireyselle\u015fmesini desteklemekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz okulda yaln\u0131z duram\u0131yorsa okulun ilk g\u00fcnlerinde s\u0131n\u0131fta k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre durarak kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131na katk\u0131da bulunabilirsiniz. \u00d6rne\u011fin sabahlar\u0131 onunla beraber okula gidip, dersten \u00f6nce ona e\u015flik edebilirsiniz. Ayr\u0131ca m\u00fcmk\u00fcnse okul \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu okuldan alabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    Ne olursa olsun \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu dinleyin:<\/strong> \u0130\u015f ya da ev ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z ne kadar yo\u011fun olursa olsun, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu mutlaka dinleyin. S\u00f6ylediklerine ise asla direkt olumsuz tepkiler vermeyin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc olumsuz tepkileriniz korkmas\u0131na ve size kar\u015f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k olmamas\u0131na neden oluyor. \u00c7ocu\u011fu anlay\u0131\u015fla dinlemek, onun t\u00fcm olup bitenleri a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a anlatmas\u0131n\u0131, olas\u0131 bir istismar veya e\u011fitimiyle ilgili bir problemi erken d\u00f6nemde fark etmenizi sa\u011flayabiliyor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    Okulunu stat\u00fc vurgusu haline getirmeyin: <\/strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun gidece\u011fi okulu se\u00e7erken g\u00f6sterdi\u011finiz \u00f6zeni ona s\u00fcrekli vurgulamaktan uzak durun. Gitti\u011fi okul, bir stat\u00fc vurgusu ve \u00e7evreye kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa ne kadar k\u0131ymet verdi\u011finizi g\u00f6steren yapay bir amaca hizmet ederse, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman onun \u00fczerinde ek bir y\u00fck olu\u015fturuyor. Yine aile b\u00fct\u00e7esini a\u015fan bir \u00f6zel okul se\u00e7imi, konunun her a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fun su\u00e7luluk duymas\u0131na neden oluyor. Bu da okulda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 stres ve performans kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131na ya da bir tak\u0131m ileti\u015fim problemlerine yol a\u00e7abiliyor. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in sizin elinizden geleni yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, ona destek oldu\u011funuzu ve sevildi\u011fini bilmek yeterli.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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