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Ne zaman ki d\u00fcnya ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131yor gibi hissediyoruz ya da fiziksel bir hastal\u0131k ya da a\u011fr\u0131yla ba\u015f etmek zorunda kal\u0131yoruz, bir\u00e7o\u011fumuz anne \u015fefkati ve ilgisini ar\u0131yoruz. Yine bir\u00e7ok insan zor bir g\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ya da kronik a\u011fr\u0131 durumlar\u0131nda kendisini en \u00e7ok annesinin yan\u0131nda g\u00fcvende hissediyor.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda g\u00fcvende hissetme ve destek arama ihtiyac\u0131 birey yeti\u015fkinli\u011fe ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da devam ediyor. Dokunu\u015flarla aktar\u0131lan duygusal deste\u011fin, ki bu doktorun omzunuza dokunmas\u0131 bile olabilir, yat\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 etkisinin bulundu\u011fu art\u0131k herkes taraf\u0131ndan biliniyor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131n do\u011fru olmas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131n, stresli veya endi\u015feli oldu\u011funuz bir anda yabanc\u0131 biri gelip \u2018Sar\u0131lmak ister misin?\u2019 diye sordu\u011funda muhtemelen ya \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z ya da irkiliriz. Oysa \u00e7ocukken bir\u00e7o\u011fumuzdan ailenin geri kalan \u00fcyelerine veya tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za sar\u0131lmam\u0131z isteniyordu ve kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki insan\u0131 ilk kez g\u00f6rsek bile teredd\u00fct etmeden sar\u0131l\u0131yorduk. O ya da bu sebepten dolay\u0131, bebekler veya \u00e7ocuklar toplum taraf\u0131ndan daha sar\u0131las\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n

Sar\u0131lman\u0131n v\u00fccuda etkileri<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Yeti\u015fkinlikte ise kimileri bu duyguya hasret kal\u0131rken, kimileri ise kendilerine ki\u015fisel alan yarat\u0131p insanlar\u0131n bu alan\u0131 ihlal etmelerini istemiyorlar. Yine de, ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a daha \u00e7ok sar\u0131lma ve sar\u0131l\u0131nma ihtiyac\u0131 hissediyoruz. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar da g\u00f6steriyor ki, birine sar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman hissetti\u011fimiz s\u0131cakl\u0131k, a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131n azalmas\u0131 ve iyile\u015fmemiz konusunda bize yard\u0131mc\u0131 oluyor.<\/p>\n

\"sarilan-kadin-1280x720\"<\/a>

Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalara g\u00f6re birine sar\u0131lmak a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 azalt\u0131yor ve iyile\u015fmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 oluyor.<\/em><\/p><\/div>\n

Strese maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, v\u00fccudumuz bu duruma tepki olarak kortizol \u00fcretmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Bu hormon v\u00fccudumuzun iyile\u015fme s\u00fcrecini yava\u015flat\u0131yor ve uzun s\u00fcreli bellek olan \u2018fla\u015f bellek\u2019leri yaratarak gelecekte sak\u0131nmak isteyece\u011fimiz \u015feyleri bize hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor. Bu noktada fla\u015f belle\u011fin; \u00f6nemli ve beklenmedik, duygusal veya toplumsal etkisi olduk\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck olan olaylar\u0131n ilk kez \u00f6\u011frenildi\u011fi an ile ilgili ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n uzun s\u00fcre sonra bile hat\u0131rlanmas\u0131na dendi\u011fini belirtmemizde fayda var. Bu durum ayn\u0131 zamanda sosyal ba\u011flar\u0131 da olumlu y\u00f6nde etkilemektedir. \u00d6rne\u011fin; herkesin uyum i\u00e7inde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi durumlarda ya da asans\u00f6rde kalmak gibi beklenmedik ve k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli samimi olmak zorunda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z noktalarda, o an etraf\u0131n\u0131zda tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z insanlar varsa arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n daha da g\u00fc\u00e7lendi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyebiliriz.<\/p>\n

Stresin panzehiri: Oksitoksin<\/strong><\/h4>\n

\u00d6te yandan, e\u011fer stresli oldu\u011fumuz bir anda biri bize ger\u00e7ek anlamda ula\u015fmay\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131rsa, v\u00fccudumuz buna tepki olarak oksitoksin \u00fcretmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Bu hormon g\u00fcven duygusunu art\u0131r\u0131yor ve k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli haf\u0131zaya bir nebzede olsa son verip, kendimizi iyi hissetmemizi sa\u011fl\u0131yor. Ayr\u0131ca ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131lar v\u00fccudumuza oksitoksin akmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, iyile\u015fme s\u00fcrecimizin ve yaralar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n iyile\u015fmesinin h\u0131zland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtiyorlar.<\/p>\n

\u0130ster kocaman, y\u00fcrekten bir sar\u0131lma olsun, isterse de ruh halinizi bir anda de\u011fi\u015ftiren k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir dokunu\u015f, t\u00fcm bunlar fiziksel iyile\u015fmenize rehberlik ediyor. Gelecek sefer kendinizi olduk\u00e7a stresli hissetti\u011finizde, yak\u0131n oldu\u011funuz birinden size sar\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyin, kendinizi olduk\u00e7a iyi hissedeceksiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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