Kayg\u0131n\u0131n en temel sebebi kontrols\u00fczl\u00fck ve belirsizliktir. \u0130nsan g\u00fcvende hissetmek i\u00e7in kontrole ve netli\u011fe ihtiya\u00e7 duyar. Ancak ya\u015fam kendi i\u00e7inde bir ak\u0131\u015f bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r ve gelece\u011fi t\u00fcm detaylar\u0131yla planlamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir.<\/strong><\/p>\nBu nedenle kayg\u0131yla ba\u015f edebilmek i\u00e7in baz\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 benimsemek gerekir:<\/p>\n
\u2013 Ne kadar planlarsam planlayay\u0131m tam olarak bilemeyece\u011fim.<\/p>\n
\u2013 Hissetti\u011fim duygu ger\u00e7ek bir olay i\u00e7in mi yoksa kendim mi yarat\u0131yorum?<\/p>\n
\u2013 Kontrol\u00fcm olan bir \u015feyi mi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum yoksa kontrol\u00fcm d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda olan bir \u015feyi mi?<\/p>\n
\u2013 Hayat belirsizlik bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r. Bunu kabul edersem daha az kayg\u0131lan\u0131r, daha rahat ya\u015far\u0131m.<\/p>\n
\u2013 Olunca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcm.<\/p>\n
\u2013 Varsay\u0131mlar\u0131mla hayat\u0131 \u00f6ng\u00f6rmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak i\u015fime yarayacak m\u0131?<\/p>\n
\u2013 Kontrol edebildi\u011fim tek an i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fum an.<\/p>\n
\u2013 Ne kadar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrsem d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcneyim olacaklar\u0131 bilemeyece\u011fim.<\/p>\n
Hayat\u0131n\u0131n kontrol\u00fc d\u00fcnde elinde de\u011fildi, yar\u0131n da olmayacak. Sen ne yaparsan yap hep belirsiz kalan bir \u015feyler olacak. Bu seni kayg\u0131land\u0131rmas\u0131n! Aksine rahatla. Kontrol edemeyece\u011fin bir \u015fey i\u00e7in bu kadar yorma kendini.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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