0 – 6 ya\u015f aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131 cinse kar\u015f\u0131 yo\u011fun bir ilgileri vard\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk her ne kadar hemcinsi olan ebeveynle mutlu g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de kar\u015f\u0131 cinse olan ilgisini gizliden de olsa s\u00fcrd\u00fcrecektir. \u00c7ocuklar, kar\u015f\u0131 cinse uzak ya da ters davranabilirler fakat buna kar\u015f\u0131n onlarla \u00e7ok ilgilidirler.<\/p>\n

Bu, elbette yeti\u015fkinlerin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u015fktan \u00e7ok farkl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk, kendini kar\u015f\u0131 cinsin g\u00f6z\u00fcnden tan\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk \u00f6z benli\u011fini olu\u015fturma gayretindedir ve ileride kar\u015f\u0131 cinsle y\u00fcr\u00fctece\u011fi ili\u015fkilerin prati\u011fini yapmaktad\u0131r. Bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu, babas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan sevilirse ileride e\u015f se\u00e7iminde babas\u0131n\u0131n karakter hususiyetlerini arayacakt\u0131r. Fakat babas\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 sevse dahi, k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu babas\u0131ndan onay alam\u0131yor ise ya da ilgi g\u00f6remiyor ise ileride e\u015f se\u00e7iminde so\u011fuk ve uzak davran\u0131\u015flar sergileyen erkeklere y\u00f6nelebilir.<\/p>\n

Gelelim \u00e7ocu\u011fa “a\u015fk\u0131m, sevgilim” gibi s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerle hitap edilmemesinin sebebine. Sizin a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuz de\u011fil, e\u015finiz olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u015eayet e\u015finizden bo\u015fand\u0131ysan\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuza “a\u015fk\u0131m” diye hitap etmeniz, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun eski e\u015finizin yerini ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesine sebep olabilir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu bir \u00e7ocuk olarak g\u00f6rmeli ve onu bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye uygun olarak g\u00f6rmelisiniz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza olan sevginizi yanl\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterirseniz \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ileride ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha b\u00fcy\u00fck olan, anne ya da baba fig\u00fcr\u00fc olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ki\u015fileri kendine e\u015f olarak se\u00e7ebilir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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