A\u015fk kelimesi as\u0131rlard\u0131r bilim adamlar\u0131n\u0131n da ara\u015ft\u0131rma konusu olmu\u015f kavramlardan biri. Ger\u00e7ekten a\u015fk var m\u0131? sorusunu ara\u015ft\u0131ran bilim adamlar\u0131 sonu\u00e7 olarak a\u015fk\u0131n kimyasal bir duygu oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

Peki ger\u00e7ekten a\u015fk var m\u0131?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Birbirini tan\u0131mayan ki\u015filerin birbirlerini g\u00f6r\u00fcp, sosyal hayat i\u00e7erisinde zamanla kimyasal uyum ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorsa a\u015fkta bu noktada devreye giriyor. A\u015fk\u0131n tamamen kimyasal hormonlar\u0131n etkisiyle ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyebiliriz.<\/p>\n

Kimyasal hormonlar o anki etkile\u015fim sonucunda salg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in a\u015fk da devreye giriyor ancak etkisini \u00e7abuk kaybediyor.<\/p>\n

A\u015fk\u0131 y\u00f6neten kar\u015f\u0131 cinse olan ho\u015flant\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fil esas\u0131nda salg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hormonlar… Bu nedenle a\u015fk\u0131n sevgi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda daha g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz ve ge\u00e7ici oldu\u011fuinu s\u00f6yleyebiliriz.<\/p>\n

Bu durumda ortaya \u015fu \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor a\u015fk kavram\u0131 insanlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 bu hisler nedeniyle insanlar taraf\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, duyumlanm\u0131\u015f, alg\u0131lanm\u0131\u015f bir kavram. O halde a\u015fk hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde var olmaya devam eden ancak t\u00fckenen, ge\u00e7ici bir kavram.<\/p>\n

O halde a\u015fka g\u00fcvenebilir miyiz?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

A\u015fka olan g\u00fcven zamanla a\u015fk\u0131n\u00a0bitmesiyle son buluyor.<\/p>\n

Peki, biten, t\u00fckenen bir kavram\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131?\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ya\u015fanan ayr\u0131l\u0131klar sonunda ki\u015filer\u00a0 “bir daha asla a\u015f\u0131k olmayaca\u011f\u0131m” laf\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok s\u00f6ylerler aradan 6 ay ya da 1 y\u0131l ge\u00e7tikten sonra tekrar a\u015f\u0131k olma evresine girerler. Bu durumda a\u015fk vard\u0131r ancak ge\u00e7icidir diyebiliriz. Yani a\u015fka g\u00fcvenmeyin. Ancak ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z a\u015fk\u0131 sevgiye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilirsiniz a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z da bitmez sevginizde, g\u00fcveninizde…<\/p>\n

A\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fcn gibi taze tutmak istiyorsan\u0131z kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye sevgiyle ba\u011fl\u0131 olman\u0131z gerekiyor. A\u015fk\u0131 uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc hale getiren sevgidir. Sevgiyle a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sarmalaman\u0131z ve koruman\u0131z gerekiyor.<\/p>\n

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