Hangi k\u00fclt\u00fcrde ve \u00fclkede olursa olsun kaynanalar evliliklerin ba\u015f kahramanlar\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya getirdi\u011fi ki\u015filerle d\u00fcnya evine girip mutlu bir hayat s\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in imza at\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7iftlerin evlilik s\u00fcrecinde ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorun hi\u00e7 ku\u015fkusuz ebeveynlerin ili\u015fkilerine m\u00fcdahale etmeleridir. Bu konuda ciddi bir sorun ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z e\u011fer mutlaka bir ili\u015fki uzman\u0131na dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131z yararl\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ebeveynlerin sadece geleneksel, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel adetler konusunda gen\u00e7lere yard\u0131mc\u0131 olal\u0131m derken daha da ilerleyip \u00e7iftlerin ili\u015fkilerine, gelecekle ilgili planlar\u0131na kadar her \u015feylerine kar\u0131\u015fmak durumunda kal\u0131yorlar. Bu ne yaz\u0131k ki do\u011fru olmayan yanl\u0131\u015f bir tutumdur. Ebeveynler, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7inde olan gen\u00e7lere kar\u015f\u0131 daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 bir tutum sergilemeleri gerekir.<\/p>\n

Kaynanalar\u0131n gen\u00e7lerin planlar\u0131na kar\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 sonucunda ailelerle, gen\u00e7ler aras\u0131nda problemler olu\u015fmaya ba\u015flar. Bu nedenle bir \u00e7ok ili\u015fki d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeden sonlan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Ailelere ve \u00f6zellikle kaynanalara d\u00fc\u015fen g\u00f6rev kendi deneyimlerinden yola \u00e7\u0131karak anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131, uzla\u015fmac\u0131, yol g\u00f6sterici bir tutumla yakla\u015fmalar\u0131 ve gen\u00e7lerin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc a\u011f\u0131rla\u015ft\u0131rmak yerine hafifletmeleri gerekir. Kaynana geliniyle yar\u0131\u015f eder gibi bir tav\u0131r tak\u0131nmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Ona sevgi g\u00f6stermelidir ki sayg\u0131 duyulabilsin. Baz\u0131 kaynanalar gelinlerinin en ufak hatas\u0131n\u0131 kafalar\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcp bunu o\u011fullar\u0131na yans\u0131tt\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in bir \u00e7ok evlilikte gelin-kaynana sorunu ya\u015fanmaktad\u0131r. Bu durumda en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rev erke\u011fe d\u00fc\u015fer. Erke\u011fin e\u015fi ve annesi aras\u0131nda bir k\u00f6pr\u00fc kurmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130kisine kar\u015f\u0131 empati kurup ona g\u00f6re davranmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6zellikle erkek taraf\u0131nda ya\u015fanan sorunlar\u0131n alt\u0131nda ebeveynlerin o\u011flunun \u00fczerinde bask\u0131 kurup kendi prensiplerini uygulatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ve bunu gelin adaylar\u0131na\u00a0kar\u015f\u0131 kullanmalar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z mutlu ve huzurlu bir ya\u015fam s\u00fcrmesini istiyorsan\u0131z onlar\u0131n mutluluklar\u0131na engel olacak tutumlardan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n ve yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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