C\u0130NSEL Sa\u011fl\u0131k Enstit\u00fcs\u00fc Derne\u011fi (C\u0130SED) Adana \u015eube Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Aile ve Evlilik Terapisti Dr. Taner Canatar, T\u00fcrkiye gibi cinselli\u011fin bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda tutuldu\u011fu \u00fclkelerde kad\u0131nlar\u0131n cinselli\u011fi kabus gibi alg\u0131lamalar\u0131na yol a\u00e7an ‘Vajinismusun’ 10 kad\u0131ndan 1’inde g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, bunun tedavi edilebildi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/b><\/p>\n

Dr. Taner Canatar, C\u0130SED’in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131na g\u00f6re, T\u00fcrkiye’de kad\u0131nlarda en s\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclen cinsel i\u015flev problemlerinden birisinin Vajinismus oldu\u011funu belirtti. Canatar, D\u00fcnya Sa\u011fl\u0131k \u00d6rg\u00fct\u00fc’ne g\u00f6re vajinismusun fiziksel bir engel olmamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen kad\u0131n\u0131n korku, kayg\u0131 ve endi\u015felerinden dolay\u0131 cinsel ili\u015fkiye izin vermemesi olarak ifade edildi\u011fini vurgulad\u0131. Dr. Canatar, \u015f\u00f6yle dedi:<\/p>\n

“E\u011fer ki\u015finin cinsellikle ilgili olumsuz duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri varsa, cinsel ili\u015fkiden haz almas\u0131 da zordur. B\u00fct\u00fcn cinsel i\u015flev bozukluklar\u0131n\u0131n temelinde cinsellikle ilgili olumsuz duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi yakla\u015f\u0131k her 10 kad\u0131ndan 1’inde g\u00f6r\u00fclen vajinismus da en s\u0131k sebep; psikolojik kayg\u0131lard\u0131r. Vajinismusun esas nedeni psikolojiktir, olu\u015f nedenleri ki\u015filere g\u00f6re farkl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6sterir. De\u011fi\u015fmeyen ise, ka\u00e7\u0131nma ve erteleme problemi oldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011fidir.”<\/p>\n

“Vajinismus bir hastal\u0131k de\u011fil”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu durumda erke\u011fe b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rev d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc de ifade eden Canatar \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n

“S\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclen bir ba\u015fka durum ise; \u00e7iftlerin bazen bu olumsuzlu\u011fu sorun olarak kabul etmek istememeleri ve durumu kabullenip doktora ba\u015fvurmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nmalar\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130lk giri\u015fimdeki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131ktan sonra her iki taraf genellikle sorunun ge\u00e7ici oldu\u011funu ve \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Daha sonraki giri\u015fimlerde de ili\u015fki ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeyince kad\u0131nda s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131, gerginlik, kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda eksiklik oldu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flar. Erkek ise, e\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan istenmedi\u011fi, reddedildi\u011fi duygular\u0131na kap\u0131lmaya ba\u015flar. Kad\u0131ndaki istem d\u0131\u015f\u0131 bu tepkiler, erkek taraf\u0131ndan, naz, kapris olarak alg\u0131lanabilir ve ‘Herkes nas\u0131l yap\u0131yor? Sen ‘Elimde de\u011fil’ diyerek yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsun’ diyerek, e\u015flerinin bu g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcklerine yard\u0131m etmek bir yana tam tersi ele\u015ftirerek ve su\u00e7layarak, onlar\u0131n korkular\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131rabilirler. Bu nedenle bir hafta kadar beklenip, sorun kendi ba\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmezse profesyonel yard\u0131m al\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekir. Vajinismus bir hastal\u0131k de\u011fil y\u00fczde 100’e yak\u0131n oranda tedavi edilebilir ailesel bir problemdir. Kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin ortak problemidir. Bu nedenle hi\u00e7 bir taraf di\u011ferini su\u00e7lamamal\u0131, aksine birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bilin\u00e7 alt\u0131ndaki gereksiz korkular\u0131 yenmek i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n ve erke\u011fin rahatlat\u0131larak gev\u015fetilmesi, heyecan ve korkular\u0131n\u0131 yat\u0131\u015ft\u0131racak ruhsal bir ortam olu\u015fturulmas\u0131 i\u00e7in de uygun psikolojik destek sa\u011flanmas\u0131 gerekmektedir.”<\/p>\n

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