Her anne ve baba \u00e7ocuklara her dedi\u011fini yapt\u0131rmak isterler. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kuralc\u0131 olan anne ve babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 kendilerini dinlemedikleri zaman bir tak\u0131m duygusal ajitasyona ba\u015fvururlar.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar fiziksel, zihinsel geli\u015ftikleri gibi duygusal zekalar\u0131 da geli\u015fmeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011funuz sizin dedi\u011finizi yapmak istemedi\u011finde kar\u015f\u0131 geldi\u011finde ya da derslerinde ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funda \u00e7o\u011fu anne baba duygusal \u015fantaja ba\u015fvurur. “Biz senin i\u00e7in sabahlara kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz, sana istedi\u011fin her \u015feyi al\u0131yoruz…vb” c\u00fcmleler \u00e7ocu\u011fu su\u00e7luluk duygusuna y\u00f6nelterek, mutsuz ve umutsuz bir ruh haline sokar. Bu durumlarda \u00e7ocuk kendisine yap\u0131lanlar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza b\u00f6ylesi durumlarda arkada\u015f ya da bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 gibi davranmay\u0131n ger\u00e7ekten bir anne-baba gibi davranarak sundu\u011funuz t\u00fcm ko\u015fullar\u0131n onun iyi bir gelece\u011fe sahip olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in\u00a0u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuza hissettirin s\u00fcrekli ileti\u015fim kurun ancak duygusal ajitasyon, \u015fantaj gibi yollara ba\u015fvurmay\u0131n. Bu \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu daha \u00e7ok yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p i\u00e7e kapan\u0131k hale getirir.<\/p>\n

Anne ve babalar\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131 hatalardan biri de \u00e7ocu\u011fu bir konuda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funda onlar\u0131 maddi bir beklentiye sokarak onlar\u0131 \u00f6d\u00fcllendirmeleridir. \u00c7ocuklara \u00e7o\u011fu kez “bu y\u0131l s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7mezsen sana istedi\u011fin bisiklet almayaca\u011f\u0131z” gibi s\u00f6zler \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu beklentiye ve her \u015feyin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine sokar.<\/p>\n

Duygusal \u015fantaj \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygusal zekas\u0131n\u0131 zedeleyece\u011fi gibi zihinsel geli\u015fimini de etkiler. Size olan sevgisi azalarak \u00f6fkeli, sinirli bir ki\u015fili\u011fe sahip olurlar.<\/p>\n

Duygusal \u015fantaja maruz kalan \u00e7ocuklar gelecekte gerek i\u015f gerekse \u00f6zel hayatlar\u0131nda mutsuz ve ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olurlar. S\u00fcrekli bir beklenti i\u00e7inde olup hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frarlar. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za psikolojik bask\u0131 uygulay\u0131p \u015fantaj yapmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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