Evlili\u011finiz k\u00f6t\u00fc gidiyorsa, bunun sebeplerine odaklanmal\u0131 ve bu sebepleri ortadan kald\u0131rmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Yani \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Hi\u00e7bir \u00e7aba harcamadan direkt bo\u015fanmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek do\u011fru olan de\u011fildir. Evlili\u011finizi y\u00fcr\u00fctebilmek i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele etmelisiniz ilk \u00f6nce. \u0130\u015fte evlili\u011fe zarar veren 5 davran\u0131\u015f:<\/p>\n

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• Ele\u015ftiri:<\/strong> E\u015finizin her davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ele\u015ftiriyorsan\u0131z, bunun \u00e7ok y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir davran\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu bilmelisiniz. Ele\u015ftiriden vazge\u00e7melisiniz.<\/li>\n
• Ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmayan beklentiler:<\/strong> B\u00fcy\u00fck ve ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmayan beklentilerinize bir son vermelisiniz. Yoksa bunlar ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in hep mutsuz olursunuz.<\/li>\n
• Kontrol tak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131:<\/strong> E\u015finize devaml\u0131 ne yap\u0131p ne yapmamas\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, devaml\u0131 onu kontrol etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z ili\u015fkinizi \u00e7\u0131kmaza s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u00fcyorsunuz demektir.<\/li>\n
• Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma:<\/strong> E\u015finizi devaml\u0131 bir ba\u015fkas\u0131yla k\u0131yasl\u0131yor, ona devaml\u0131 bir ba\u015fkas\u0131ndan \u00f6rnekler veriyorsan\u0131z mutlu bir evlilikten \u00e7ok uza\u011fa d\u00fc\u015fersiniz.<\/li>\n
• Rutinlik:<\/strong> \u0130li\u015fkinizin monotonla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, yeni hobiler bulabilir, beraber yapabilece\u011finiz me\u015fgaleler bulabilirsiniz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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