\u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek eskisi kadar kolay de\u011fil. \u00d6zellikle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan anneler i\u00e7in zor bir durum. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6remeyen anneler eve geldiklerinde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6zlemle onlara sar\u0131l\u0131p her dedi\u011fini yapmaya meyillidirler. Her ne kadar baz\u0131 konularda s\u0131n\u0131rda ve kuralda koysalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 bir \u015fey isteyip a\u011flad\u0131klar\u0131nda anneler dayanamay\u0131p \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n her dedi\u011fini yap\u0131yorlar.<\/p>\n
Peki, \u00e7ocu\u011fun her dedi\u011fini yapmak do\u011frumu?<\/p>\n
Uzmanlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n a\u011flad\u0131klar\u0131 esnada annelerin onlara istedi\u011fini vermemeleri konusunda uyar\u0131yor. Yani \u00e7ocu\u011funuz a\u011fl\u0131yor ve istedi\u011fi \u015feyi a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 esnada vermeniz sak\u0131ncal\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc daha sonra \u00e7ocuk a\u011flama taklidi yaparak size her istedi\u011fini yapt\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015facakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n
B\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyen \u00e7ocuk ak\u015fam onlar\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde s\u00fcrekli bir \u015feyler isteyecektir. Bu do\u011fal bir durumdur. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz a\u011flamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 esnada ona istedi\u011fini verin. Baz\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar s\u00fcrekli olarak a\u011flayarak bir \u015feyler isterler. Bu \u00e7ocuklar evlerinde son derece problemliyken okulda \u00e7ok uslu bir yap\u0131ya sahiptirler. Yani ev ve okuldaki ki\u015filikleri farkl\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. Bu durum \u00e7ocuklarda ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011funa neden olur b\u00f6yle \u00e7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcklerinde kendilerini \u00e7ok iyi ifade edemezler. Bu y\u00fczden yapman\u0131z gereken \u00e7ok basit “\u00e7ocu\u011funuz a\u011flarken isteklerini yerine getirmeyin”.<\/p>\n
Yani “tamam o\u011flum a\u011flama sus, bekle yap\u0131cam, al\u0131cam” gibi c\u00fcmleler kesinlikle kullanmay\u0131n. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz a\u011flamadan ya da sustuktan sonra istedi\u011fi \u015feyi neden yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 veya niye yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n b\u00f6ylece \u00e7ocuk evde kurallar\u0131 daha iyi anlayacak ve tutarl\u0131 bir yap\u0131ya sahip olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n
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