G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde pek \u00e7ok ili\u015fkide g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi ya\u015f fark\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fchim bir fakt\u00f6r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmeye ba\u015fland\u0131.<\/p>\n

Genelde erkeklerin ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funun bu hususta kal\u0131p yarg\u0131lar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Halbuki g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde pek \u00e7ok ili\u015fkide g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi ya\u015f fark\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fchim bir fakt\u00f6r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmeye ba\u015fland\u0131. Kendinden ya\u015f\u00e7a \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck veya \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck biri ile ili\u015fkiye ba\u015flayan bir ki\u015fi neye g\u00f6re ve nas\u0131l bu fakt\u00f6re \u00f6nem verir? Bu \u015fartlar karar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 etkiliyor mu?<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz modern d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda kad\u0131n ve erkeklerin ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bir gruba sokam\u0131yoruz. “50 ya\u015f\u0131ndakiler b\u00f6yle davran\u0131r.” gibi bir genelleme yapma \u00e7ok zor. Ki\u015finin kendisini ya\u015f guruplar\u0131na sokamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu \u00e7a\u011fda ili\u015fkiye ba\u015flayan \u00e7iftlerin birbirlerini tan\u0131malar\u0131 i\u00e7in ortak \u015fartlar\u0131 yeterli say\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. Ya\u015flar\u0131 ne olursa olsun m\u00fc\u015fterek zevkler ve payla\u015f\u0131mlar daha etkili olmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bireylerin bir arada olabilmeleri i\u00e7in birbirlerinde arad\u0131klar\u0131 hususiyetler ve standartlar aras\u0131nda “ya\u015f fark\u0131” listede alt s\u0131ralara d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f g\u00f6z\u00fckmektedir.<\/p>\n

\u0130yi anla\u015f\u0131lan ili yaln\u0131z birey ya\u015f fark\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden bir arada olamamalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok da g\u00f6r\u00fclmedi\u011fi modern \u015fehir ya\u015fam\u0131nda ili\u015fkileri bozan ve \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcten daha m\u00fchim fakt\u00f6rler ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Genelde kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kendilerinden ya\u015f\u00e7a daha b\u00fcy\u00fck erkeklerle beraber olmak istemelerinin sebebinin olgun erkek aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011fu s\u00f6ylense de olgunlu\u011fun ki\u015filerde ya\u015fla olu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 da bir ger\u00e7ektir.<\/p>\n

Erkeklerin zeki kad\u0131nlardan korktu\u011fu, zeki kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7ekingen oldu\u011fu, erkeklerin ge\u00e7 olgunla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kendilerinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck erkeklerle beraber olmaktan utand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feklindeki kal\u0131p yarg\u0131lar\u0131 bir kenara b\u0131rakan g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131, yaln\u0131zca hayat\u0131 payla\u015fabilece\u011fi ve sevebilece\u011fi uygun bir partner aramaktad\u0131rlar. Bu aray\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 da ya\u015f fark\u0131yla bozmayacak kadar \u0131srarc\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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