Hedik t\u00f6reni, bebeklerin ilk di\u015fini \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flad\u0131ktan sonra ailenin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00a0hedik t\u00f6reni gelene\u011fi denilir. Y\u0131llardan bu yana Ortaasya’dan g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcze kadar gelen \u00a0ger\u00e7ek bir T\u00fcrk k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc gelene\u011fidir.<\/p>\n
Hedik: Bu\u011fday tanelerinin nohut ile birlikte ha\u015flanmas\u0131 ve s\u00fcz\u00fclmesi ile haz\u0131rlanan bir yemektir.<\/p>\n
Hedik d\u00f6kme t\u00f6reni \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilk di\u015fleri \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman yap\u0131lan bir t\u00f6rendir. Bu t\u00f6ren \u00e7ocu\u011fun akrabalar\u0131 ve kom\u015fu kad\u0131nlar\u0131n toplanmas\u0131yla yap\u0131l\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk giydirilip s\u00fcslenir,gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar oyunlar oynarlar,\u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6yleyip e\u011flenirler. Hedik haz\u0131rland\u0131ktan sonra \u00e7ocuk salonun ortas\u0131nda, yerden hafif y\u00fcksek tabureye oturtulur ve etraf\u0131na bir \u00f6rt\u00fc yay\u0131l\u0131r. Bu \u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00fczerine \u00e7e\u015fitli e\u015fyalar dizilir.(Tarak,saat, makas,para ,alt\u0131n,kalem,vs.) Hedik d\u00f6kme esnas\u0131nda \u00e7ocuk hangi e\u015fyay\u0131 eline al\u0131rsa ilerde onunla ilgili bir mesle\u011fi se\u00e7ece\u011fine inan\u0131l\u0131r. Hedik d\u00f6k\u00fclmeden \u00f6nce \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ortas\u0131na hedik birikmesini sa\u011flayacak kadar,tepe k\u0131sm\u0131 \u00e7ukurla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan bir k\u00fcllah tak\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Hedikler,d\u00f6k\u00fclmeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca,etraftakiler \u00f6rt\u00fcye yay\u0131lan hedikleri kaparak yerlerdi.Bu arda di\u015fleri g\u00fczel olan gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlardan biri \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015f\u0131ndaki k\u00fcllah\u0131 a\u011fz\u0131 ile kaparak d\u0131\u015far\u0131 ka\u00e7ar, herkes onun pe\u015finden ba\u011f\u0131rarak ko\u015fturur ve a\u011fz\u0131ndan k\u00fcllah\u0131 al\u0131n\u0131r.<\/p>\n
K\u00fcllah\u0131n \u00fczerinde biriken hedikler veya yedi tane hedik par\u00e7as\u0131 bir ipe dizilerek \u00e7ocu\u011fun boynuna tak\u0131l\u0131r.T\u00f6ren, haz\u0131rlanan \u00e7erezlerin hedikle yenilmesiyle devam eder. Bu arada e\u011flencelerde devam eder. \u00c7ocu\u011fun hedik t\u00f6renine gelenler \u00e7e\u015fitli hediyeler verirler ve t\u00f6ren sona erer.<\/p>\n
Ha\u015flanm\u0131\u015f bu\u011fday\u0131n ve nohudun aras\u0131na kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan \u00e7erez, ilk di\u015fini \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015f bebe\u011fin \u00fczerindeki -\u00e7ocuklarla gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar\u0131n tuttu\u011fu- beyaz \u00e7ar\u015fafa d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcr. Bebek \u00f6n\u00fcne serpi\u015ftirilmi\u015f ve her biri ayr\u0131 bir mesle\u011fi sembolize eden e\u015fyalarla oynar. Sonu\u00e7ta da tuttu\u011fu objenin temsil etti\u011fi i\u015fi meslek edinece\u011fine dair bir inan\u00e7 vard\u0131r. (Makas tutmu\u015fsa terzi veya cerrah, alt\u0131nsa kuyumcu, kitapsa \u00f6\u011fretmen vb.)<\/p>\n
Di\u015f hedi\u011finin bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc ku\u015flara, kalan\u0131 da g\u00fcne kat\u0131lan-kat\u0131lmayan e\u015f dost ve kom\u015fulara da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Di\u015f hedi\u011fi ne kadar \u00e7ok da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r ve yenirse bebe\u011fin o kadar sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve g\u00fczel di\u015flere a\u011fr\u0131 \u00e7ekmeden sahip olaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Hedik, bu\u011fday\u0131n bir tencereye konarak suda \u015fi\u015finceye kadar kaynat\u0131larak ha\u015flanmas\u0131d\u0131r.Bunun i\u00e7erisinde \u00fcz\u00fcm, ki\u015fmi\u015f,\u00e7edene gibi meyveler kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131larak yenir.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011fun ilk di\u015flerinin \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 fark edildi\u011fi g\u00fcn di\u015f hedi\u011fi yap\u0131l\u0131r. O ak\u015fam e\u015f dost, h\u0131s\u0131m akraba toplan\u0131r di\u015f hedi\u011fi yerler.<\/p>\n
Di\u015f hedi\u011fi yenmeden \u00f6nce \u00e7ocuk bir seccade \u00fczerine oturtulur, \u00f6n\u00fcne Kuran-\u0131 Kerim, Ayna ,Makas,\u00c7eki\u00e7,Defter,Kalem gibi e\u015fyalar konulur. \u00c7ocu\u011fun ba\u015f\u0131ndan bir tabak hedik d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcr ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6n\u00fcne konan e\u015fyalardan birini almas\u0131 beklenir.\u00c7ocuk Kuran\u00b4a el uzat\u0131rsa Haf\u0131z veya Hoca, Ayna\u00b4a el uzat\u0131rsa Berber, Makasa el uzat\u0131rsa terzi, \u00c7ekice el uzat\u0131rsa demirci veya duvar ustas\u0131, Kalem ve defteri al\u0131rsa kalem efendisi, masa ba\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6revlisi olurmu\u015f.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrk geleneklerinde \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilk di\u015fi \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yap\u0131lan t\u00f6rendir. Baz\u0131 y\u00f6relerde di\u015f hedi\u011fi de denir. T\u00f6rende \u00e7ocuk yere serilen bir \u00f6rt\u00fc \u00fczerine oturtulur. Toz ve \u015fekerle kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bu\u011fday ba\u015f\u0131ndan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 serpilir. \u00d6n\u00fcne makas, Kur’an ve alt\u0131n konur. \u00c7ocuk bu \u00fc\u00e7 nesneden birini se\u00e7er. Kur’an\u0131 al\u0131rsa okuyacakt\u0131r, makas\u0131 al\u0131rsa ev han\u0131m\u0131 olacakt\u0131r (k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklarda), paray\u0131 al\u0131rsa zengin olacakt\u0131r. Misafirlere bu\u011fday ikram edilir. Bu t\u00f6ren Midilli Rumlar\u0131nda da kutlan\u0131r.( Pertev Naili Boratav, Y\u00fcz Soruda T\u00fcrk Folkloru, K Kitapl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u0130stanbul 2003, s. 197.)<\/p>\n
Mal\u00fbm hepimizin, b\u00fct\u00fcn Kilis’lilerin ba\u015f\u0131ndan ge\u00e7en bir olayd\u0131r bu di\u015f hedi\u011fi meselesi. Bu konu ge\u00e7enlerde akl\u0131ma geldi ve k\u0131sa bir ara\u015ft\u0131rmadan sonra elde etti\u011fim folklorik bilgileri sizlerle payla\u015fmak istedim.<\/p>\n
Di\u015f hedi\u011fi diye bilinen bir nevi kutlama mahiyetindeki olay\u0131n amac\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun di\u015flerinin sa\u011flam olmas\u0131 ve di\u015f \u00e7\u0131karma d\u00f6nemin kolay ge\u00e7mesidir. Bu ama\u00e7la ailenin ileri gelen kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ba\u015fta olmak \u00fczere e\u015f dost ve yak\u0131n akrabalar davet edilir.<\/p>\n
\u00d6ncelikle iri taneli hediklik bu\u011fday kaynat\u0131l\u0131r. Burada ama\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fun di\u015flerinin bu\u011fday tanelerinin kaynamas\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131ndaki hareketi gibi kaynayarak h\u0131zl\u0131ca \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131d\u0131r. Di\u015f hedi\u011fi merasimine Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim ve dualar ile ba\u015flan\u0131r. Sonra s\u00fcsl\u00fc p\u00fcsl\u00fc elbiseler giydirilen, di\u015fleri yeni \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e7ocuk geni\u015f\u00e7e bir sini veya kalbur i\u00e7ine oturtulur. \u00c7ocu\u011fun \u00f6n\u00fcne Kur\u2019an, tespih, makas, tarak, ayna, b\u00fct\u00fcn ve bozuk para, bir di\u015f sar\u0131msak, ekmek, nazar i\u00e7in \u00fczerlik otu vs. konur.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011fun bunlardan birini eline almas\u0131na g\u00f6re ilerde \u00e7ocu\u011fun nas\u0131l bir insan olaca\u011f\u0131 konusunda yorum yap\u0131l\u0131r; Kur\u2019an ve tespih; ilmi, okumay\u0131, devlet adam\u0131 olmay\u0131 veya din adam\u0131 olmay\u0131<\/p>\n
Makas ve tarak, meslek erbab\u0131 olmay\u0131<\/p>\n
Ayna, s\u00fcse merakl\u0131 olmay\u0131<\/p>\n
Para, ticareti ve zenginli\u011fi<\/p>\n
Ekmek; ailesi i\u00e7in bereketli olaca\u011f\u0131, hayat\u0131 boyunca bolluk i\u00e7inde ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131 gibi manalar ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Daha sonra tam ezan okunurken besmele ve dualar ile \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015f\u0131na hedik d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcr. Sonra bu hediklerden \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015f\u0131nda kalanlar\u0131 di\u015fleri sa\u011flam biri a\u011fz\u0131 ile al\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011fun ba\u015f\u0131ndan al\u0131nan hediklerden yedi adedi bir ipe dizilerek \u00e7ocuk erkekse boynuna, k\u0131zsa sa\u00e7lar\u0131na tak\u0131l\u0131r. Burada ise ama\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fun di\u015flerinin d\u00fczg\u00fcn ve s\u0131ral\u0131 olmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fun ba\u015f\u0131ndan al\u0131nan bu hedikler daha sonra a\u00e7\u0131k bir yere ku\u015flar\u0131n yemesi i\u00e7in b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131r ki, ileride \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fcnce tabiata faydal\u0131 biri olsun.<\/p>\n
\u0130lerleyen saatlerde gelen misafirler \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in yanlar\u0131nda getirdikleri \u00e7e\u015fitli hediyeleri sunarlar. Burada \u015funu belirtelim \u00e7ocu\u011fun di\u015fini ilk g\u00f6ren kimse \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hediye almak zorundad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Evdeki misafirlerden sonra artan hedik ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde s\u00fcslenerek konu kom\u015fuya da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r. Bu ikram\u0131 alanlar ise hedik getirilen taba\u011f\u0131 y\u0131kamadan yine \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in tabak i\u00e7ine hediye koyarak \u00f6ylece verirler. \u00d6yle inan\u0131l\u0131r ki tabak y\u0131kan\u0131rsa \u00e7ocu\u011fun di\u015fleri \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fck olurmu\u015f. Evdeki misafirler giderken z\u0131lg\u0131t \u00e7alarak ve dua ederek kalkarlar. B\u00f6ylelikle di\u015f hedi\u011fi merasimi tamamlanm\u0131\u015f olur.<\/p>\n
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K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilk di\u015finin \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6ren veya fark\u0131na Varan ki\u015fi \u00e7ocu\u011fa bir hediye almak zorundad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011fun di\u015fi \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131ktan sonra, ailesi, bu\u011fday\u0131 suda, i\u00e7ine nohut, bazen de fasulye kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131larak pi\u015firilen geleneksel yeme\u011fe “hedik” denir.<\/p>\n
Hedik kom\u015fulara birer tabak da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r. Evine Di\u015f Hedi\u011fi gelen kom\u015fular, hedi\u011fi getirene, \u00e7ocu\u011fa verilmek \u00fczere bah\u015fi\u015f veya k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hediye verirler.<\/p>\n
D\u00fcnyaya gelen \u00e7ocu\u011fun ailesi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckle \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmu\u015fsa veya daha \u00f6nce do\u011fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ya\u015famam\u0131\u015fsa; do\u011fum olay\u0131 daha bir sevin\u00e7le olur.<\/p>\n
Do\u011fumdan sonra “\u015eirincelik” denen \u00e7erez veya tatl\u0131 t\u00fcr\u00fc yiyecek da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u00e7\u0131 yedi ya\u015f\u0131na kadar kesilmez.<\/p>\n
Do\u011fan \u00e7ocuk erkek ise, yedi ya\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011finde berbere g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr ve sa\u00e7\u0131 kestirilir. Bu sa\u00e7 a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131nca para fakir \u00e7ocuklara da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r. Kesilen sa\u00e7 saklan\u0131r ve o\u011flan evlenirken haz\u0131rlanan yast\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7ine konur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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