Ergenlik d\u00f6nemlerinde aileler ve \u00e7ocuklar aras\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar \u00e7\u0131kar ve bu durum ilerleyen d\u00f6nemlerde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmez ise daha k\u00f6t\u00fc sonu\u00e7lara sebep olabilir. Ergen gen\u00e7 ile aile aras\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar, birbirlerinin anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hissi ergen genci evden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p daha \u00e7ok arkada\u015f ortam\u0131na iterek hata yapmaya elveri\u015fli hale getirir.<\/p>\n

Uzmanlar bu konuda aileler b\u00fcy\u00fck roller d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc vurgulayarak, her \u015feyden \u00f6nce siz \u00e7ocu\u011funuza model olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z diyor.<\/p>\n

Ailelerin bu d\u00f6nemlerde yapmas\u0131 gereken en \u00f6nemli davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 sizler i\u00e7in derledik\u2026<\/p>\n

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\u00c7ocu\u011funuza de\u011fer verdi\u011finizi ona g\u00f6sterin<\/strong><\/p>\n

De\u011fer verdi\u011finizi g\u00f6stermenin en iyi yolu onu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hissettirmenizdir. Bu nedenle onu anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n ve sizinle gurur duymas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n. Sizinle her \u015feyi payla\u015fmas\u0131na izin verin. Onu dinleyin.<\/p>\n

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Onu asla ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslamay\u0131n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu kom\u015fu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131, kuzenler ve hatta kendi gen\u00e7li\u011finizle k\u0131yaslama yapmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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S\u00fcreli nasihat ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vermeyin<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00fcrekli nasihatler gen\u00e7lerin dinlemekten nefret etti\u011fi bir durumdur. Bunun yerine onu dinleyin ve gizliden ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nerede oldu\u011funu kontrol edin.<\/p>\n

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\u201cBizim zaman\u0131m\u0131zda\u201d\u2026 diye c\u00fcmleler kurmay\u0131n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sizin zaman\u0131n\u0131z size kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Her yeni g\u00fcnde zaman de\u011fi\u015fir unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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Asla rencide etmeyin<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu d\u00f6nemde egolar\u0131 tavan yapm\u0131\u015f olan gen\u00e7leri rencide etmeniz onu sizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r. Bir \u00e7ok ergen hatalar\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeden hata kabul etmezler. Bu nedenle b\u00fcy\u00fck sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece hata yapmas\u0131na izin verin. Fakat \u201cBen demi\u015ftim\u2026\u201d yerine \u201cDaha dikkatli ol\u201d diyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

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\u0130lgi alanlar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duyun<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ailelerin en \u00e7ok kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 konularda birisidir \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hobilerine kar\u0131\u015fmak. B\u0131rak\u0131n sevdi\u011fi sporla, m\u00fczikle, dansla u\u011fra\u015fs\u0131n. Bu onun ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131na destek olur. B\u00f6ylece \u00f6zg\u00fcven de kazan\u0131r. B\u0131rak\u0131n istedi\u011fi gibi giyinsin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir ge\u00e7ecek unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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\u00c7ocu\u011funuza model olun<\/strong><\/p>\n

Unutmay\u0131n ki bebekli\u011finden, \u00e7ocuklu\u011funa, gen\u00e7li\u011fine kadar ona \u00f6rnek oldunuz. Bu rol\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc b\u0131rakmay\u0131n. Evde s\u00fckuneti sa\u011flamak sizin elinizde\u2026<\/p>\n

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