Anne ve babalar\u0131n en \u00e7ok yapt\u0131klar\u0131 hatalardan biridir duygusal istismar yoluyla duygusal \u015fiddet uygulanmas\u0131. \u00c7ocuklu\u011funda bu tarz \u015fiddete maruz kalan \u00e7ocuklar gelecekte psikolojik sorunlar ya\u015famaya ba\u015flarlar madde ve alkol ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131 olurlar.<\/p>\n

D\u00fcnya sa\u011fl\u0131k \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc ise bu fiziksel, duygusal ve cinsel \u015fiddete u\u011fram\u0131\u015f \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n tedavi edilerek yeniden topluma kazand\u0131r\u0131lmalar\u0131n\u0131n, onlar\u0131n onurlar\u0131n\u0131n onar\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n bir sorumluluk oldu\u011funu dile getiriyor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklara uygulanan duygusal \u015fiddetin belirtileri nedir?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fu hi\u00e7 \u00f6nemsememe<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocuk hakk\u0131nda k\u00f6t\u00fc konu\u015fma<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fa lakaplar takma<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fun ba\u015farmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi g\u00f6revler vermek<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fu red etme, \u00f6nemsememe<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fa sevgi g\u00f6stermeme (sar\u0131lmak \/\u00f6pmek vb)<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131k ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamama<\/li>\n
• Toplum i\u00e7inde \u00e7ocu\u011fu etiketleme, ele\u015ftirerek a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama, ba\u011f\u0131rma<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fu tehdit etme<\/li>\n
• S\u00fcrekli ele\u015ftirmek, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamak, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemek<\/li>\n
• S\u00fcrekli \u00e7ocu\u011fa ba\u011f\u0131rmak<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fun yard\u0131m istedi\u011finde g\u00f6rmezden gelme, yard\u0131m etmeyi red etme<\/li>\n
• Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fa ba\u011f\u0131rma,utand\u0131rma, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 isimler takma<\/li>\n
• Ev i\u015fi \u015fiddeti izlemeye maruz b\u0131rakma<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fun duygusal ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 red etme\/g\u00f6rmezden gelme<\/li>\n
• Sevgiyi geri \u00e7ekme \/tehditinde bulunma<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fun kriminal aktivitelerde bulunmas\u0131 i\u00e7in y\u00f6nlendirme<\/li>\n
• \u00c7ocu\u011fu terk etme\/fiziksel \u015fiddet ile cezaland\u0131rma tehditlerinde bulunma<\/li>\n
• Ya\u015f\u0131na uygun olmayan a\u011f\u0131r i\u015fler\/sorumluluklar vermek<\/li>\n
• E\u011fitim almas\u0131n\u0131 engellemek<\/li>\n
• Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hataya psikolojik zarar verecek cezalar verme<\/li>\n
• A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 bask\u0131 ve otorite uygulamak<\/li>\n
• Korktu\u011funu bilerek o \u015feyi yapmaya zorlamak<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  \u00c7ocu\u011fun duygusal \u015fiddet belirtileri:<\/strong>
  \nNormal aktivitelerden \u00e7ekilme, arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan uzakla\u015fma
  \nSald\u0131rganl\u0131k, \u00f6fke, hiperaktiv, okulda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k
  \nDepresyon, anksiyete, \u00f6zg\u00fcven kayb\u0131
  \nG\u00f6revini yerine getirememe
  \nOkula gitmemek
  \nAsilik, dik ba\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k, meydan okuma, kar\u015f\u0131 gelme
  \n\u0130ntihar giri\u015fimi
  \nEbeveynden korkma
  \nEbeveynden nefret ettiklerini s\u00f6yleme
  \nKendileri hakk\u0131nda k\u00f6t\u00fc konu\u015fma (Aptal\u0131m)
  \nKonu\u015fmada anl\u0131k de\u011fi\u015fim(\u00f6rn, kekeleme)
  \nDavran\u0131\u015flarda anl\u0131k de\u011fi\u015fim (tikler, alt \u0131slatma, \u00e7alma, yeme&uyku d\u00fczeni vb.)<\/p>\n

  Duygusal \u015fiddete maruz kalan \u00e7ocuklar sevilmedikleri, de\u011fersiz olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hissederek \u00f6zg\u00fcvenlerine kaybederler. Bu \u00e7ocuklar ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131yla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ileti\u015fim kuramazlar. Duygusal \u015fiddete maruz kalan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n bu durumu pek farkedilemez. Duygusal \u015fiddete maruz kalan \u00e7ocuklar psikolojik terapiyle bu durumdan kurtulabilir. Doktor e\u015fli\u011finde aile \u00fcyelerininde deste\u011fi \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n

  Ailenin duygusal \u015fiddete son vermesi i\u00e7in yapmas\u0131 gerekenler:<\/strong><\/p>\n

  -\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu istismar uygulayan e\u015finiz ile yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmay\u0131n.
  \n-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza de\u011ferli, \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131n ve hissettirin.
  \n-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza iyi bir rol model olun.
  \n-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu keyif ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 aktivitere ba\u015flamas\u0131na f\u0131rsat yarat\u0131n ve bu aktiviteleri devam ettirin.
  \n-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun akranlar\u0131 ile vakit ge\u00e7irmesine, arkada\u015fl\u0131k kurmas\u0131na olanak sa\u011flay\u0131n.
  \n-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu etkin dinleyin ve ona sayg\u0131 duydu\u011funuzu hissettirin.
  \n-\u00c7ocu\u011funuza \u015fefkatli ve ilgili davran\u0131n. Onlar\u0131 dinleyin, s\u00fcrekli ileti\u015fim halinde olun. Onlar\u0131n g\u00fcvende olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hissettirin.
  \n-\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sorular\u0131na duygusal yan\u0131tlar vermeyin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu k\u0131s\u0131tlamay\u0131n. Bir psikiyatr arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla ilgilenin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzu a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamay\u0131n ve sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n

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