D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn \u00f6ncesinde k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n yapmas\u0131 gerekenler nelerdir? Bu konuda sizlere k\u0131saca bilgiler verece\u011fiz. Evlilik \u00f6ncesi k\u0131na gecesi ve yatak odas\u0131 ve mutfak e\u015fyalar\u0131 k\u0131z taraf\u0131na aittir. Buna benzer geleneksel rit\u00fceller bulunmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

T\u00fcrk toplum yap\u0131s\u0131nda, geleneklere g\u00f6re k\u0131z evi naz evidir ve evlilik haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131 s\u00fcrecinde b\u00fcy\u00fck sorumluluk erkek taraf\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fmektedir. Masraflar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu erkek taraf\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131lamas\u0131 gerekenler listesindedir. K\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n yapmas\u0131 gerekenler s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Gelin g\u00f6r\u00fcn ki modern toplum yap\u0131s\u0131nda i\u015fler art\u0131k pek de eskisi gibi y\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcyor. Bir kere her \u015feyden \u00f6nce \u00e7o\u011fu \u00e7ift, kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde kendileri kar\u015f\u0131lamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan kad\u0131n ve erkekler evlilik haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131 s\u00fcrecinde olabildi\u011fince masraflar\u0131 aralar\u0131nda b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015ferek birlikte halletme yoluna gidiyorlar. Gelinler detaylarla u\u011fra\u015f\u0131rken temel gereklilikler erkekler taraf\u0131ndan ayarlan\u0131yor. T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131rsak e\u011fer, gelenekler \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n yapmas\u0131 gerekenleri \u015fu \u015fekilde s\u0131ralayabiliriz:<\/p>\n

\u2013 K\u0131z isteme sonras\u0131nda bir s\u00f6z kesme merasimi yap\u0131l\u0131r ve misafirlere ikramlar sunulur. Bunlar genellikle b\u00f6rekler, \u00e7\u00f6rekler, kekler, zeytinya\u011fl\u0131lardan olu\u015fan bir men\u00fcd\u00fcr. K\u0131z taraf\u0131 k\u0131z isteme g\u00fcn\u00fc i\u00e7in bu men\u00fcy\u00fc haz\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Ni\u015fan boh\u00e7as\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 her iki taraf i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir. K\u0131z taraf\u0131, erkek i\u00e7in ni\u015fan boh\u00e7as\u0131 haz\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Ni\u015fan, k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n sorumlulu\u011fundad\u0131r. Mekan\u0131n tutulmas\u0131, davetiyeler ve davetlilere yap\u0131lacak ikramlar k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n yapmas\u0131 gerekenler listesindedir.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Ni\u015fanda damad\u0131n takaca\u011f\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fc\u011f\u00fc de k\u0131z taraf\u0131 almal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Gelinli\u011fi damat taraf\u0131n\u0131n almas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi damatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da gelin taraf\u0131 almal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u2013 Ev kurulurken b\u00fcy\u00fck sorumluluk damat taraf\u0131 \u00fczerindedir ama k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n da yapmas\u0131 gereken bir\u00e7ok \u015fey vard\u0131r. \u00d6ncelikle herkes taraf\u0131ndan bilindi\u011fi \u00fczere yatak odas\u0131 tak\u0131m\u0131 k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n almas\u0131 gereken e\u015fyalar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda gelir. Mutfak ara\u00e7 gere\u00e7leri, elektrik s\u00fcp\u00fcrgesi, banyo e\u015fyalar\u0131, perdeler, f\u0131r\u0131n, \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r ve bula\u015f\u0131k makinesi ile \u00fct\u00fc, k\u0131z taraf\u0131na aittir.<\/p>\n

\u2013 K\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n bir de \u00e7eyiz sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorumlulu\u011fu vard\u0131r. Asl\u0131nda k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n almas\u0131 gerekenler de \u00e7eyiz sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7eri\u011finin birer par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Nevresim tak\u0131mlar\u0131, bornoz ve havlu tak\u0131mlar\u0131, \u00f6rt\u00fcler, e\u011fer kullan\u0131lacaksa i\u015flemeler, oyalar, lif, patik vs. gibi e\u015fyalar \u00e7eyiz sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7eri\u011fini olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n

K\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n yapmas\u0131 gerekenler ailelerin bulunduklar\u0131 gelenek yap\u0131s\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fiklik g\u00f6sterebilir. Genel \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde kabul g\u00f6ren liste ise bu \u015fekildedir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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