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Anne babalar\u0131n minik k\u0131zlar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcrken onlara asla s\u00f6ylememeleri gereken baz\u0131 c\u00fcmleler vard\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte o c\u00fcmleler…<\/h2>\n

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K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu yeti\u015ftirmek \u00f6yle san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi kolay bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile erkek \u00e7ocuk aras\u0131nda fark vard\u0131r. K\u0131zlar erkeklere g\u00f6re daha ger\u00e7ek\u00e7idir ve daha al\u0131ngan b\u00fcy\u00fcrler. Bu y\u00fczden onlara kar\u015f\u0131 kullanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z c\u00fcmleleri \u00f6zenle se\u00e7meniz gerekir.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte anne ve babalar\u0131n k\u0131zlar\u0131na s\u00f6yledi\u011fi 10 yanl\u0131\u015f c\u00fcmle:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

“Onu yapmak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcks\u00fcn”<\/h4>\n

K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 geleceklerini erkeklere g\u00f6re \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nceden planlamaya ba\u015flar. Erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce ne olacaklar\u0131 konusunda astronot, sihirbaz gibi fantastik yorumlar yaparken k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ise daha ger\u00e7ek\u00e7idir. \u00d6\u011fretmen, hem\u015fire gibi tercihlerde bulunur. Bu y\u00fczden “sen o i\u015fi yapamazs\u0131n, onun i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcks\u00fcn” gibi ifadeler kullanman\u0131z onun kendine g\u00fcvenini zedeleyebilir.<\/p>\n

“Beklentilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck tut”<\/h4>\n

K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na ileride kad\u0131n olarak zorluklarla ya\u015fayacaklar\u0131n\u0131 bu y\u00fczden beklentilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck tutmalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemeyin. Bu onlar\u0131n kanatlar\u0131n\u0131 kesmekle ayn\u0131 \u015fey.<\/p>\n

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“O erkek i\u015fi”<\/h4>\n

K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n olmay\u0131 arzu etti\u011fi meslek, sadece erkeklerin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir meslek olabilir. Bu o i\u015fi k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n da yapamayaca\u011f\u0131 anlam\u0131na gelmez. “O erkek i\u015fi” deyip kestirip atmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

“Zaman\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015fa harc\u0131yorsun”<\/h4>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015fey size anlaml\u0131 gelmeyebilir. K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bo\u015fa zaman harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ve en k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc bunu ona s\u00f6yleyebilirsiniz. Yapmay\u0131n, bu davran\u0131\u015f onun iste\u011fini k\u0131rabilir.<\/p>\n

“Sen dur ben yapar\u0131m”<\/h4>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in fazla koruyucu olabilirsiniz. Ancak bu onlar\u0131n geli\u015fimini engeller. K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fi onun yerine yapmay\u0131n. B\u0131rak\u0131n yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, denesin, en sonunda ba\u015faracakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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“Bu hi\u00e7 de han\u0131mefendi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 de\u011fil”<\/h4>\n

K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yeti\u015ftirirken onu “han\u0131mefendi” kal\u0131b\u0131na sokmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. Bu kal\u0131b\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda onu azarlamay\u0131n. \u00c7ocuk oldu\u011funu asla unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

“Sen kafan\u0131 takma”<\/h4>\n

K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z size bir sorununu anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onu ge\u00e7i\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. “Sen kafana takma” gibi k\u0131sa cevaplar ileride aran\u0131zda olu\u015facak anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131n tohumunu atmaktan ba\u015fka bir i\u015fe yaramayacak. Bir g\u00fcn k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131zdan “Beni anlam\u0131yorsunuz” s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc duymak istemiyorsan\u0131z buna dikkat edin.<\/p>\n

“Onu \u00f6rnek al”<\/h4>\n

K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ablas\u0131 ya da bir arkada\u015f\u0131 gibi olmaya y\u00f6nlendirmeyin. Bu onun kendi benzersiz ki\u015fili\u011finin olu\u015fturmas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyecektir.<\/p>\n

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“Az ye”<\/h4>\n

\u00d6zellikle ergenlik d\u00f6neminde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n v\u00fccut fizyolojisinin h\u0131zla de\u011fi\u015fmesi normaldir. Bu d\u00f6nemde k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n en son ihtiyac\u0131 olan \u015fey, sizin onun hayat\u0131na kar\u0131\u015fman\u0131zd\u0131r. K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kilo almaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tespit ederseniz sak\u0131n ona “az ye” ya da “yeme” gibi ifadeler kullanmay\u0131n. Yemek yenmedi\u011fi s\u0131rada sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 beslenmeden bahsedin, ya da yemekleri haz\u0131rlarken sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 beslenme ilkelerine sad\u0131k kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n

“Onun i\u00e7in fazlas\u0131n”<\/h4>\n

K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z bir g\u00fcn gelecek ve erkeklerden ho\u015flanmaya ba\u015flayacak ve a\u015f\u0131k olacak. Bu ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz\u0131 \u00f6ncelikle bir kabul edin. Onu koruyaca\u011f\u0131m diye k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n be\u011fendi\u011fi ki\u015fileri a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamay\u0131n. B\u00f6yle yaparak o tercihi yapan ki\u015fiyi yani k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lam\u0131\u015f olursunuz. E\u011fer yanl\u0131\u015fsa b\u0131rak\u0131n kendisi bunun fark\u0131na vars\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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