Bo\u015fanma s\u00fcresinde anne ve babalar\u0131n bu durumu bo\u015fanman\u0131n ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesinden 4-5 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile payla\u015fmas\u0131 gerekir. Bu durumda \u00e7ocu\u011fa m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca a\u00e7\u0131k ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst olunmal\u0131d\u0131r. Onun anlayabilece\u011fi bir dille ve bir nedene ba\u011flayarak bu karar\u0131 anne ve baban\u0131n birlikte \u00e7ocu\u011fa a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 gerekir. Bu neden \u00e7ocu\u011fun anlayabilece\u011fi d\u00fczeyde olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Burada \u00f6nemli olan \u00e7ocu\u011fa onu sevece\u011finizi, koruyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bu durumun de\u011fi\u015fmeyece\u011fini ona hissettirmeniz, anlatman\u0131z olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu durumu a\u00e7\u0131klarken ebeveynlerin duygular\u0131n\u0131 ifade etmesinde yada belli etmesinde bir sak\u0131nca yoktur. Fakat ebeveynler aras\u0131nda ya\u015fan\u0131lan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar ve \u00f6fke kontrols\u00fczl\u00fckleri \u00e7ocu\u011fun yan\u0131nda yap\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu durum \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fcvenini sarsar ve kendi \u00f6fkesini \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya vurmas\u0131n\u0131 engeller.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011fumuza<\/a> bo\u015fanma sonras\u0131nda kiminle kalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nerede ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, hangi okula gidece\u011fini anlatmam\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7iftler ne kadar d\u00fcr\u00fcst ve kavgas\u0131z ayr\u0131l\u0131rsa \u00e7ocu\u011fu da o kadar az zararla bo\u015fanma s\u00fcrecini atlatm\u0131\u015f olur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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