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Uzun s\u00fcredir bak\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z o ki\u015fiyle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131n\u0131z. Birka\u00e7 kez d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e7ok g\u00fczel vakit ge\u00e7irdiniz. Arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za \u201cBen a\u015f\u0131k oldum\u201d mesaj\u0131n\u0131 da zaten ilk bulu\u015fman\u0131n ard\u0131ndan g\u00f6ndermi\u015ftiniz. Peki ger\u00e7ekten\u00a0a\u015f\u0131k m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk aniden olu\u015fmaz. Y\u0131ld\u0131r\u0131m a\u015fk\u0131 diye bir \u015fey yoktur. G\u00f6r\u00fcr g\u00f6rmez hissedilen a\u015fk de\u011fil, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 \u00e7ekim olabilir. Pek \u00e7o\u011fumuz bu tip yarg\u0131lar\u0131 kendimiz yarat\u0131yoruz. Bu \u00e7ekim a\u015fka d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir, ancak bunun i\u00e7in zaman \u015fartt\u0131r.
\n– K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk\u0131n g\u00f6stergesi de\u011fildir. \u201cNe kadar \u00e7ok k\u0131skan\u0131l\u0131rsa o kadar \u00e7ok a\u015f\u0131k\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi bir kand\u0131rmacad\u0131r. \u00a0Birbirini ger\u00e7ekten seven iki insan aras\u0131nda bir miktar k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k olmas\u0131 do\u011fald\u0131r. Uzmanlar, kronik k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k \u00e7eken ki\u015filerin bilin\u00e7alt\u0131nda g\u00fcvensizlik duygusu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve sevilme a\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ektiklerini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.
\n– Hayallere dalmak sevgi de\u011fil, karasevda belirtisidir. Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk kar\u015f\u0131daki ki\u015fiye y\u00f6nlendirilir, b\u00fct\u00fcn davran\u0131\u015flar sevilen ki\u015finin iyili\u011fi ve mutlulu\u011funu sa\u011flamak i\u00e7indir. Karasevda ise ben-merkezcidir. Ki\u015fi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmez, kendi mutlulu\u011funa veya mutsuzlu\u011funa odaklan\u0131r. Bu durumda a\u015f\u0131k olunan sevgili de\u011fil, a\u015fk\u0131n kendisidir.
\nYOKSA KARASEVDA MI?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– A\u015fk mesafeyle azalmaz. Bir kimseyi birlikteyken daha fazla seviyorsan\u0131z, onun cazibesinden ve heyecan\u0131ndan etkilendi\u011finiz anlam\u0131na gelir. Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00f6nd\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in yan\u0131n\u0131zda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman baz\u0131 \u015f\u00fcpheler ba\u015fg\u00f6sterir. Bir ba\u015fka deyi\u015fle bu suni bir a\u015fkt\u0131r.
\n– A\u015fk, sevilen ki\u015finin kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rememek de\u011fildir. A\u015f\u0131k ki\u015fi, sevdi\u011finin kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 bilip anlamas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131n sevmeye devam eder. Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki ki\u015fiyi kusursuz olarak g\u00f6rmek, karasevdan\u0131n habercisidir.
\n– A\u015fk, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 \u00e7ekmek anlam\u0131na gelmez. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi etkileme kayg\u0131n\u0131z bu derece yo\u011funsa ger\u00e7ek a\u015fktan s\u00f6z etmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Ger\u00e7ekte oldu\u011funuz kimsenin sevildi\u011fini bildi\u011finizde, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan huzur duyars\u0131n\u0131z. Kader ortaklar\u0131 olmakla, bir a\u015fk\u0131n kahramanlar\u0131 olmak aras\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck fark vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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