92 ya\u015f\u0131nda hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden ve ABD televizyonlar\u0131n\u0131n en \u00e7ok izlenen ’60 Minutes’ adl\u0131 haber magazin \u015fov program\u0131 ile tan\u0131nan Andy Rooney’in 30 ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in s\u00f6yledikleri…<\/p>\n
Andy Rooney: “Ya\u015f\u0131m ilerledik\u00e7e, en \u00e7ok otuz ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlara de\u011fer vermeye ba\u015flad\u0131m.”<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n \u0130\u015fte bunun sebeplerinden birka\u00e7\u0131:<\/strong><\/p>\n – 30 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015f bir kad\u0131n asla sizi gecenin bir yar\u0131s\u0131 uyand\u0131r\u0131p “Ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsun?” diye sormaz. Umurunda de\u011fildir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n – E\u011fer otuzunu a\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir kad\u0131n TV’deki ma\u00e7\u0131 seyretmek istemiyorsa, s\u00f6ylene s\u00f6ylene TV’nin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda yan\u0131n\u0131zda oturmaz. Yapmak istedi\u011fi bir \u015feyi yapar. Ve bu genellikle daha enteresan bir \u015feydir.<\/strong><\/p>\n – Otuz ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir kad\u0131n kendini yeterince iyi tan\u0131r ve kendinden emindir…<\/p>\n – Kim oldu\u011funu, ne oldu\u011funu, ne istedi\u011fini ve kimden istedi\u011fini bilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n – Otuzunu a\u015fm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131n \u00f6vg\u00fcler ya\u011fd\u0131rmakta \u00e7ok bonk\u00f6rd\u00fcr, \u00e7o\u011fu hakedilmemi\u015f bile olsa… \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc takdir edilmemenin ne oldu\u011funu iyi bilir.<\/p>\n – Otuz ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc kad\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlukla b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u015fklara, \u00f6m\u00fcr, boyu s\u00fcrecek ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131klara doymu\u015ftur.<\/strong><\/p>\n – Hayat\u0131nda en son ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u015fey bir ba\u015fka m\u0131z m\u0131z, devaml\u0131 s\u00f6ylenen, ne yapaca\u011f\u0131na kar\u0131\u015fan, yap\u0131\u015fkan bir a\u015f\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n – Otuzunu a\u015fm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131n, a\u011f\u0131rba\u015fl\u0131d\u0131r. Bir operan\u0131n ortas\u0131nda ya da pahal\u0131 bir restoranda sizinle \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011fa kavga etmesi \u00e7ok nadirdir. Ha tabii hakettiyseniz, size vururken de hi\u00e7 teredd\u00fct etmez, sonu\u00e7lar\u0131na katlanmay\u0131 da planlayarak.<\/strong><\/p>\n – Otuzunu a\u015fm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131n sizi kad\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131yla rahatl\u0131kla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131racak kadar kendine g\u00fcvenir. Daha gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n, en iyi arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bile g\u00f6rmezlikten gelebilir, yan\u0131ndaki adama g\u00fcvenmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n – Otuzunu a\u015fm\u0131\u015f \u00e7ok az kad\u0131n onun hakk\u0131nda ya da yapt\u0131klar\u0131 hakk\u0131nda ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc \u00f6nemser.<\/strong><\/p>\n – Otuz ya\u015f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcndeki kad\u0131n sizin onun arkada\u015f\u0131na ilgi duyman\u0131z\u0131 hi\u00e7 sallamaz, arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n onun aldatmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilir.<\/p>\n – Otuz ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir kad\u0131n k\u0131pk\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 bir ruj s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde bu ona \u00e7ok yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Ama daha gen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlarda b\u00f6yle de\u011fildir.<\/strong><\/p>\n – Otuz \u00fcst\u00fc kad\u0131nlar a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6zl\u00fc, do\u011frucu ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstt\u00fcr. Ne kadar geri zekal\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu bir \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131da a\u00e7\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6yleyiverir, e\u011fer bir geri zekal\u0131 gibi davrand\u0131ysan\u0131z. Onun i\u00e7in ne anlam ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 merak etmenize gerek yoktur.<\/p>\n – Kad\u0131nlar ya\u015flar\u0131 ilerledik\u00e7e medyumla\u015f\u0131rlar. Ona g\u00fcnah \u00e7\u0131karman\u0131za hi\u00e7 gerek yoktur, onlar her bir halt\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00dcnl\u00fc…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2635,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[540,1457,778],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2634"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2634"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2634\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2634"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2634"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.coolkadin.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2634"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"kad\u0131n\"](\"http:\/\/www.kadinvekadin.net\/modul\/user\/fuimg\/201511\/14480080940.41398100.jpg\")
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