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\u00a0 \u015eunu hi\u00e7bir zaman unutmayal\u0131m ki kendisinden ka\u00e7may\u0131 gerektirecek kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck hi\u00e7 bir sorun yoktur.<\/div>\n

Son d\u00f6nemlerde aile i\u00e7i problemlerle ilgili g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerim daha bir artt\u0131\u2026 En \u00e7ok \u015fik\u00e2yet edilen konu ise e\u015flerin birbirleri ile g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmemeleri, k\u00fcsmeleri ve ileti\u015fim kurmamalar\u0131\u2026 Hatta bir dan\u0131\u015fan\u0131m e\u015finin kendisiyle y\u0131llard\u0131r konu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve aile i\u00e7inde bu olay\u0131n \u00e7ocuklara da yans\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade ediyordu\u2026 G\u00f6r\u00fcnen o ki art\u0131k insanlar birbirlerini anlamada, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 duygu payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131nda ve birbirlerini y\u00f6nlendirmede etkinliklerini yitirmi\u015fler.<\/p>\n

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\u00a0 Duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortamlarda ki\u015filerin birbirlerini anlamalar\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

\u0130leti\u015fimin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerlerde ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rme, kendi haklar\u0131n\u0131 korudu\u011fu gibi e\u015finin haklar\u0131n\u0131 korumama, e\u015fine sayg\u0131 duymama, duygu, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce, inan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frudan, i\u00e7tenlikle anlatmama, tutars\u0131zl\u0131k ve karars\u0131zl\u0131k, \u00e7evresiyle uyumsuzluk ve tart\u0131\u015fma gibi problemler olu\u015fur. Bu problemler beraberinde ki\u015finin ailesine ve e\u015fine kar\u015f\u0131 yabanc\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131na, yeni aray\u0131\u015flara ise y\u00f6nelmesine neden olur. Baba i\u015fyerindeki arkada\u015f gruplar\u0131yla, anne kad\u0131nlar aras\u0131ndaki gruplarla, \u00e7ocuklar da arkada\u015f gruplar\u0131yla ileti\u015fim kurmay\u0131 ye\u011flemekte, his ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 da aile d\u0131\u015f\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131nmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar ileti\u015fim kurmadan ya\u015fayamazlar.<\/p>\n

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Ev i\u00e7erisinde zay\u0131flayan ileti\u015fim olu\u015fturdu\u011fu olumsuz hava ve yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 doyumsuzluk nedeniyle evdeki her bireyin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na yans\u0131yarak aile i\u00e7i grupla\u015fmalar\u0131na da yol a\u00e7maktad\u0131r.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Anne o\u011ful, baba k\u0131z veya \u00e7ocuklar aras\u0131 koalisyonla anne babaya kar\u015f\u0131 cephele\u015fme e\u011filimleri ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r. Bu durum, ileti\u015fimi b\u00fcsb\u00fct\u00fcn bozmakta, sosyal rolleri de sertle\u015ftirmektedir.<\/p>\n

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Televizyon ve internetin de hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki fonksiyonu incelendi\u011fi zaman g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde teknolojik ileti\u015fim arac\u0131 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p yuva y\u0131kmaya kadar giden evlilik sorunlar\u0131na sebep olabilece\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fclmektedir. Chat hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131na tutulan ki\u015filerin evlili\u011fini sonland\u0131rmak zorunda kalmalar\u0131 da bir ba\u015fka vak\u0131a\u2026 Sanal \u00e2lemden zamanla vazge\u00e7emeyen ki\u015filerin y\u00fczde 35-40\u2019\u0131, ge\u00e7mi\u015f d\u00f6nemde e\u015fleri taraf\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya da b\u00fcy\u00fck ihanete u\u011fram\u0131\u015f han\u0131mlar. Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unutamad\u0131klar\u0131ndan, sanal \u00e2lemde tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 erkeklerle sohbet ederek e\u015finin yapt\u0131klar\u0131na \u2018g\u00fcya\u2019 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k veriyor. \u0130lk zamanlar \u2018nas\u0131l olsa verdi\u011fim bilgiler yanl\u0131\u015f, oradaki ben de\u011filim ki!\u2019 dese de ucundan k\u0131y\u0131s\u0131ndan girdi\u011fi sanal dairenin i\u00e7ine zamanla d\u00e2hil oluyor, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman da ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman ve mek\u00e2ndan kendini soyutluyor.<\/p>\n

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Yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar aile i\u00e7i ileti\u015fimde ya\u015fanan sorunlardan bir tanesinin de, aile \u00fcyelerinin birbirlerine yeterince zaman ay\u0131ramamas\u0131 oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyor.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Bununla birlikte g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerim sonunda ailenin i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu maddi problemin ya da aileden herhangi birinin alkol kullanmas\u0131 da aile i\u00e7i problemlere neden olmakta ve huzursuzlu\u011fu k\u00f6r\u00fcklemektedir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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