\u00d6zellikle b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015fehirlerde ya\u015fayan erkeklerde g\u00f6r\u00fclen bir\u00a0durumdur.\u00a0Baz\u0131lar\u0131 yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131, baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ekici, baz\u0131lar\u0131 karizmat\u0131k, baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ok zengindir ve baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00e7irkin olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen etraf\u0131 k\u0131zlarla \u00e7evrilidir. Bu tip erkekler hassas, duyarl\u0131 \u00f6zellikle kad\u0131nlar\u0131 k\u0131rmaktan korkan erkeklerdir.<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 k\u0131rmaktansa onlar\u0131n yakt\u0131klar\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vererek onlara kur yaparlar. \u00c7irkin, aptal, salak, g\u00fczel, karaktersiz farketmez her k\u0131za as\u0131l\u0131rlar yani mavi boncuk da\u011f\u0131t\u0131rlar veya ar\u0131 misali b\u00fct\u00fcn bah\u00e7eleri gezerler ve her \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fe bal yaparlar.<\/p>\n

Bu tip erkekler ge\u00e7mi\u015fte birini \u00e7ok sevdikleri ve h\u00fcsrana u\u011fray\u0131p g\u00fcven kayb\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in bunun ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kendisine ilgi g\u00f6steren her k\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vererek \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rlar. B\u00f6ylelikle kaybettikleri \u00f6zg\u00fcvenlerini bu \u015fekilde kazanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Ancak psikologlar bunun yanl\u0131\u015f bir taktik oldu\u011funun alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izdiler.<\/p>\n

Gerek ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim uzmanlar\u0131 gerekse d\u00fcnyaca \u00fcnl\u00fc psikologlar ge\u00e7mi\u015fte bir kad\u0131n taraf\u0131ndan g\u00fcven kayb\u0131na u\u011frayan ve h\u00fcsrana u\u011frayan erkeklerin kendilerine ilgi g\u00f6steren b\u00fct\u00fcn kad\u0131nlara yakla\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n tehlikeli oldu\u011funu ve kendilerini ger\u00e7ekten sevecek ve de\u011fer verecek olan ki\u015fiye bu \u015fekilde ula\u015famayacaklar\u0131n\u0131 vurguluyorlar.<\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte size k\u00f6t\u00fc bir ili\u015fki ya\u015fatan ki\u015fi y\u00fcz\u00fcnden bunun ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kartman\u0131n ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011funa neden olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 daha olumsuz ili\u015fkilere yol a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iziyorlar. Sizi ger\u00e7ekten seven ki\u015fiyi \u00f6zel k\u0131lman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini, di\u011fer arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za ise mesafe koyulmas\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fru olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 savunmaktalar. Aksi halde ger\u00e7ekten g\u00fcvenecebilece\u011finiz o ki\u015fiyi kaybeder ve hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 mavi boncuk da\u011f\u0131tan yaln\u0131z bir erkek olarak s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeye devam edersiniz belkide mavi boncuk da\u011f\u0131tt\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015filer o boncuklar\u0131 surat\u0131n\u0131za f\u0131rlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kendinizi d\u00f6rt duvar aras\u0131nda tek ba\u015f\u0131na bulman\u0131z olas\u0131 y\u00fcksek bir ihtimal…<\/p>\n

Psikologlar, bu tip erkeklerin ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc ili\u015fkiye tak\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 olarak, \u00a0ilgi ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven eksikli\u011finden dolay\u0131 bu \u015fekilde davrand\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve zamanla ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011fu ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 belirtiyorlar.<\/p>\n

Uzmanlar\u0131n erkeklere tavsiyesi;<\/p>\n

Mavi boncuk da\u011f\u0131tmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131n, sizi sevene g\u00fcvenin ve \u00f6zel muamele g\u00f6sterip di\u011fer arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zdan ay\u0131r\u0131n. Aksi halde asla ger\u00e7ek bir a\u015fka sahip olamazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

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