Kad\u0131nlar fiziksel ve ruhsal olarak her ne kadar erkeklere g\u00f6re nahif olarak bilinseler de erkeklere g\u00f6re \u00e7ok daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fu noktalar vard\u0131r. Ac\u0131ya erkeklere g\u00f6re \u00e7ok daha dayanakl\u0131d\u0131r. Do\u011fum sanc\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7eken kad\u0131nlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 alt edecek kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7inde, kendinize ad\u0131m ad\u0131m uygulayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir hedef plan\u0131 yapt\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? \u0130nan\u0131yorum ki, d\u00fcnyadaki t\u00fcm kad\u0131nlar, sab\u0131r ve yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 azimle birle\u015ftirdi\u011finde d\u00fcnyay\u0131 yerinden oynatabilecek bir g\u00fcce sahip.<\/p>\n

Hayat ak\u0131p giderken, yolumuzun do\u011frulu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek pek akl\u0131m\u0131za gelmez. Ger\u00e7ekten hedefledi\u011fimiz yere do\u011fru mu gidiyoruz, yoksa y\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz biraz kaym\u0131\u015f m\u0131? Bu bilgiye sahip olmak i\u00e7in, \u015fimdiye ve ge\u00e7mi\u015fe g\u00f6z atmak gerekir. Bazen her \u015fey yolunda gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ama bu bir ill\u00fczyondur. Ara s\u0131ra durup yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131za bakmazsan\u0131z, kendi i\u00e7inizde kaybolabilirsiniz. Kendinize sorman\u0131z gereken sorular ve verdi\u011finiz cevaplardan \u00e7\u0131karaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yorumlar\u0131n\u0131z vard\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131 ertelemeyin. \u0130nsan bir tek kendinden ka\u00e7amaz! Sonunda mutlaka aynaya bakmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n

GER\u00c7EK DOST KISKANMAZ<\/strong>
\n\u00c7o\u011fumuz i\u00e7in arkada\u015fl\u0131k kavram\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, s\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan insanlar, bizden sevgi ve \u00f6vg\u00fc bekleme hakk\u0131na sahiptir. Ancak burada dikkat edilmesi gereken bir nokta vard\u0131r: Her arkada\u015f, dost de\u011fildir. Ger\u00e7ekten sizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen ve de\u011fer veren insanlarla arkada\u015f olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. \u00dcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerinizi y\u00fcrekten payla\u015fan ve mutluluklar\u0131n\u0131za i\u00e7tenlikle ortak olan ki\u015filerle arkada\u015fl\u0131k edin. Enerjinizi t\u00fcketen, sizi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7eken insanlar\u0131 kendinizden uzak tutun. Arkada\u015f zannetti\u011finiz ama olmayanlar\u0131 nas\u0131l ay\u0131racaks\u0131n\u0131z? \u015euna emin olun ki, ger\u00e7ek dost k\u0131skanmaz. Sizi kontrol alt\u0131na almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz. S\u00fcrekli \u201cben s\u00f6ylemi\u015ftim\u201d diyerek, yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za kakmaz. Dost \u00f6ng\u00f6r\u00fc sahibiyse, mutlaka uyar\u0131r. Ancak d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde yan\u0131n\u0131zdad\u0131r ve sizi kald\u0131r\u0131r. Geriye kalanlar, ahbap veya tan\u0131d\u0131ktan \u00f6teye ge\u00e7emez.
\nYA\u015eADI\u011eINIZ A\u015eK SAH\u0130C\u0130 M\u0130?<\/strong>
\nHayat\u0131n\u0131zda sadece \u2018olsun\u2019 diye bulunan bir sevgili, eziyetten ve s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131zda y\u00fckten ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki fazlal\u0131klardan kurtulun. D\u00fcr\u00fcst olun ve \u00f6zele\u015ftiri yap\u0131n. E\u011fer ili\u015fki y\u00f6n\u00fcnde hedefleriniz ayn\u0131 de\u011filse, neden ba\u015fka birinin sorumlulu\u011funu ta\u015f\u0131yas\u0131n\u0131z ki? Sorunlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelmek, onlar\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rmaz. Beraber ya\u015famak veya evlenmekle ilgili olarak, ikiniz ortak fikirlere mi sahipsiniz? Sizin birliktelikten beklentilerinizle, onun beklentileri farkl\u0131 m\u0131? D\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcz, aile yap\u0131n\u0131z, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z uyumlu mu? Ger\u00e7ek bir a\u015fk\u0131n i\u00e7inde misiniz? Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z a\u015fk sahici mi? Bu sorular\u0131n cevab\u0131, ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131za \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutmaya yeter.<\/p>\n

HEDEFLER\u0130N\u0130 PLANLAYIN<\/strong>
\nD\u0131\u015f etkenleri bir kenara koyal\u0131m. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015fah\u0131slar, isteyip de yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015feyler i\u00e7in bahanemiz olurlar. Siz mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z halde neleri yapm\u0131yorsunuz, onlar\u0131 bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Be\u011fenmedi\u011finiz yanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve huylar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in, hangi sudan sebeplerin arkas\u0131na saklan\u0131yorsunuz? Her yenilgide ortaya s\u00fcrece\u011finiz bahanelerden ba\u015fka, cebinizde neyiniz var? Kendinize ad\u0131m ad\u0131m gidilecek bir hedef plan\u0131 yapt\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<\/p>\n

B\u0130R KADIN D\u00dcNYAYI YER\u0130NDEN OYNATAB\u0130L\u0130R<\/strong>
\nBir yan\u0131m\u0131z kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, zarafetini, di\u015fili\u011fini korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor; di\u011fer yan\u0131m\u0131z t\u00fcm cinsel kimli\u011fimizi yok sayarak ya\u015fam\u0131n ortas\u0131nda dimdik durmaya \u00e7abal\u0131yoruz. Benim inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir do\u011fru var: Bir kad\u0131n\u0131 kendinden ba\u015fka kimse engelleyemez. Kad\u0131ndaki sab\u0131r, azim ve yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ve inan\u00e7la birle\u015fti\u011finde, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 yerinden oynatabilecek g\u00fc\u00e7tedir. Hayran oldu\u011funuz hemcinslerinizin hikayelerine kulak verirseniz, ne demek istedi\u011fimi daha iyi anlars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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