Yanl\u0131\u015f bir insan\u0131 sevmek ve de\u011fer vermek \u00e7ok sonradan bizim i\u00e7in o ki\u015finin do\u011fru bir tercih olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamak bizi hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ve mutsuzlu\u011fa itebilir. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Erkek se\u00e7iminde s\u00fcrekli hata yapanlardan m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u0131sm\u0131 a\u015fk yolunda ziyan m\u0131 oldu? Bu sorulara \u2018evet\u2019 cevab\u0131 veriyorsan\u0131z, kul\u00fcbe ho\u015f geldiniz\u2026<\/p>\n

Erkek se\u00e7iminde s\u00fcrekli hata yapanlardan m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u0131sm\u0131 a\u015fk yolunda ziyan m\u0131 oldu? Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ili\u015fkilerin bitiminde ac\u0131 \u00e7eken, b\u0131rak\u0131lan siz mi oluyorsunuz? Do\u011fru adamla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmam\u0131\u015f olman\u0131z\u0131n sebebini kadere ve \u015fansa m\u0131 ba\u011fl\u0131yorsunuz? Bu sorulara \u2018evet\u2019 cevab\u0131 veriyorsan\u0131z, kul\u00fcbe ho\u015f geldiniz\u2026 Buras\u0131 \u2018Yanl\u0131\u015f Erkek Se\u00e7en Kad\u0131nlar Kul\u00fcb\u00fc!\u2019 Bu kul\u00fcb\u00fcn \u00fcyelerinin ortak \u00f6zelli\u011fiyse kendileriyle tan\u0131\u015fmamalar\u0131. \u0130nsan kendini tan\u0131maz m\u0131 gibi bir sorunuz varsa, cevab\u0131m, \u201cZor tan\u0131r\u201d…<\/p>\n

KEND\u0130N\u0130Z\u0130 SORGULUYOR MUSUNUZ?<\/strong>
\nBir kad\u0131n s\u00fcrekli yanl\u0131\u015f adamlarla birlikte oluyorsa, su\u00e7u kadere ve baht\u0131na atmadan \u00f6nce oturup biraz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeli. Bu kul\u00fcb\u00fcn \u00fcyeleri \u00e7o\u011fu zaman erkekleri su\u00e7lar, mutlu oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 di\u011fer kad\u0131nlara kar\u015f\u0131 gizli bir k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duyar ve o ki\u015finin \u015fansl\u0131 ya da \u2018hafif me\u015frep\u2019, her yolu bilen bir tip oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Kendini sorgulamak ise akl\u0131na bile gelmez. Peki, bu se\u00e7imlerin alt\u0131nda yatan etken nedir? Bunun iki cevab\u0131 vard\u0131r: A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcven ve \u00f6zg\u00fcvensizlik! \u00c7ok \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil mi? Kendine \u00e7ok g\u00fcvenen kad\u0131n, normalde kimse taraf\u0131ndan onaylanmayan bu yanl\u0131\u015f erkek i\u00e7in \u015f\u00f6yle bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceye kap\u0131l\u0131r, \u201cBen onu de\u011fi\u015ftiririm!\u201d Kendini ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan farkl\u0131 sanan, h\u0131rs dolu, simyac\u0131l\u0131\u011fa \u00f6zenen bu \u00fcyemizin, elbette sonunda elinde kalan sadece g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n

BUZ KRAL\u0130\u00c7ES\u0130NE D\u00d6N\u00dc\u015eMEK\u2026<\/strong>
\nBayan Kendine G\u00fcvenen, bir m\u00fcddet sonra yorgun, y\u0131pranm\u0131\u015f, do\u011fru karar verme yetene\u011fini kaybetmi\u015f, ger\u00e7ek kimli\u011fi yara alm\u0131\u015f, \u00f6fkeli ve inat\u00e7\u0131 bir yap\u0131ya b\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcr. Gittik\u00e7e se\u00e7ti\u011fi adamlar gibi olmaya ba\u015flar. Sonucunda da kuyru\u011funu yakalamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan kedi gibi, kendi etraf\u0131nda d\u00f6nen, erkeklere \u00f6fke duyan, her ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z ili\u015fkisi i\u00e7in bahane \u00fcreten, sevginin ger\u00e7ekli\u011fine inanc\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015f ve inatla d\u00f6n\u00fcp kendini sorgulamayan bir \u2018Buz Krali\u00e7esi\u2019ne d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

\u00d6ZG\u00dcVENS\u0130Z KADIN ERKE\u011e\u0130 KA\u00c7IRIR<\/strong>
\n\u00dcyelerimizin ikinci k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturan Bayan G\u00fcvensiz ise erkek se\u00e7iminde alt yaz\u0131 olarak \u015funu ge\u00e7irir, \u201cBeni bu adamdan ba\u015fka kimse be\u011fenmiyor ki! Ba\u015fka se\u00e7ene\u011fim yok.\u201d Bu \u00fcyemizin en \u00f6nemli sorunu kendini be\u011fenmemesi ve sevmemesidir. Genellikle v\u00fccudundan nefret eder. Mutlaka ele\u015ftirdi\u011fi bir uzvu vard\u0131r. Boyu, kilosu, burnu, g\u00f6z\u00fc, di\u015fi, poposu, g\u00f6be\u011fi, elleri vb\u2026 Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n hemen hepsi bir yerlerini de\u011fi\u015ftirmek isterler, ancak bu \u00fcyemizi farkl\u0131 k\u0131lan \u00f6nemli bir bilin\u00e7alt\u0131 yarg\u0131s\u0131 vard\u0131r, \u201cSevilmeyi hak etmiyorum!\u201d Bu durum o kadar benli\u011fini sarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki, di\u015fili\u011fini, sevgisini, ruhunu, zekas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rter. \u00dczerine giydi\u011fi elbiseden tutun da, kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 c\u00fcmlelere kadar verdi\u011fi mesaj, \u201cBeni se\u00e7meyin, ben mutsuz bir kad\u0131n\u0131m, sizi de mutsuz ederim\u201d dir. B\u00f6yle olunca da, istedi\u011fi ve birlikte olabilece\u011fi adamlar bu sinyali al\u0131r ve ka\u00e7arlar. Geriye kalanlarsa kalender me\u015freplerdir. \u00dcyemiz, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 her ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z ili\u015fki ile d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini daha \u00e7ok onaylam\u0131\u015f olur. Yani damlaya damlaya g\u00f6l olur ve Bayan G\u00fcvensiz kendi g\u00f6l\u00fcnde bo\u011fulur.<\/p>\n

DE\u011e\u0130\u015e\u0130ME \u00d6NCEL\u0130KLE KEND\u0130N\u0130ZDEN BA\u015eLAYIN<\/strong>
\nBu kul\u00fcb\u00fcn \u00fcyelerinden biri oldu\u011funuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, derhal harekete ge\u00e7in. Kendinizle y\u00fczle\u015fin! Ruhunuzu, beyninizi ve y\u00fcre\u011finizi tedavi edin. Gerekirse profesyonel yard\u0131m al\u0131n. De\u011fi\u015fime erkeklerden de\u011fil, kendinizden ba\u015flay\u0131n. G\u00f6receksiniz o zaman kaderiniz de, \u015fans\u0131n\u0131z da de\u011fi\u015fecek ve bir g\u00fcn kap\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131nacak, \u201cMerhaba! Ben Bay Do\u011fru!\u201d.<\/p>\n

De\u011fi\u015fime \u00f6nce kendinizden ba\u015flay\u0131n. G\u00f6receksiniz birg\u00fcn \u2018Bay Do\u011fru\u2019 kap\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7alacak!<\/em><\/p>\n

A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcven, \u201cBen onu de\u011fi\u015ftiririm\u201d tavr\u0131 size sadece g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 getirir. Kendini sevmeyen, mutsuz ve g\u00fcvensiz kad\u0131nsa erke\u011fe, \u201cSeni de mutsuz ederim\u201d mesaj\u0131n\u0131 verir. Her iki kad\u0131n i\u00e7in ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz son ise yaln\u0131zl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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