Ayr\u0131l\u0131k da sevdaya dair demi\u015f \u015fair. Mutlu ba\u015flayan bir ili\u015fki bazen mutsuz sonu\u00e7lanabiliyor. Ayr\u0131l\u0131k her iki cins i\u00e7inde k\u00f6t\u00fc bir son elbette… Peki, bu ayr\u0131l\u0131k sonucunda ki\u015filer nas\u0131l bir ruh haline d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorlar. Evet, ac\u0131 veriyor biliyoruz ama iyi taraf\u0131 da var; ge\u00e7iyor! Hepimizin farkl\u0131 \u015fekillerde de olsa tecr\u00fcbe etti\u011fi bir durum olan ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n baz\u0131 ortak noktalar\u0131 da var. Biz ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 genel olarak d\u00f6rt a\u015famaya ay\u0131rd\u0131k.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ayr\u0131l\u0131k, ya\u015fanmas\u0131 gereken \u015feylerden biri ve t\u0131pk\u0131 sevmek, mutlu olmak gibi ya\u015fam\u0131n \u00e7ok do\u011fal ve normal bir par\u00e7as\u0131. E\u011fer siz de \u015fu an b\u00f6yle bir durum ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z, hangi a\u015famada oldu\u011funuza bak\u0131n ve iyile\u015fmenize ne kadar kalm\u0131\u015f \u00f6\u011frenin! Hem de en e\u011flenceli \u015fekilde!<\/p>\n

1. A\u015eAMA: Y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131\u015f<\/b>
\nEvet, terk edildiniz ve y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131n\u0131z. Belki siz terk ettiniz ama yine de y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131n\u0131z! Bu a\u015famada, kar\u015f\u0131daki ki\u015fi vazge\u00e7irilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r genelde. Hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fu halde bu ac\u0131y\u0131 ya\u015famamak i\u00e7in \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyenler bile vard\u0131r belki aram\u0131zda\u2026 Burada arabeskler, \u2018D\u00f6n vefas\u0131z!\u2019lar dinlenir. Depresyon da denebilir asl\u0131nda bu a\u015famaya \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmaz, a\u015fk filmleri izlenir; pe\u00e7eteden olu\u015fan devasa kuleler olu\u015fur. Ama ne kadar uzun s\u00fcrerse s\u00fcrs\u00fcn en sonunda ikinci a\u015famaya ge\u00e7ilir.<\/p>\n

2. A\u015eAMA: Kabulleni\u015f<\/b>
\n\u2018Tamam abi ya tamam o kaybeder!\u2019 dedi\u011finiz a\u015famaya kabulleni\u015f denir. Asl\u0131nda bir nevi avuntular da bu a\u015famada ya\u015fan\u0131r diyebiliriz. Art\u0131k ac\u0131n\u0131z azalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, durumu kabullenirsiniz. Hayat\u0131n\u0131za kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yerden devam etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Halbuki bir \u00f6nceki a\u015famada hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 umursamay\u0131p sadece a\u011fl\u0131yordunuz; e biz ge\u00e7iyor zamanla demi\u015ftik!<\/p>\n

3. A\u015eAMA: \u00d6fke, \u0130ntikam<\/b>
\nD\u00fcr\u00fcst olal\u0131m: hepimiz bu a\u015famay\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131k, \u00e7ekti\u011fimiz ac\u0131lar \u00e7ekilsin istedik ya da en az\u0131ndan k\u0131skand\u0131rmak istedik. Bu a\u015famada, o evden \u00e7\u0131kmayan a\u015fk \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131 dinleyenlerin ilk adresi kuaf\u00f6r ve avm\u2019ler! Hemen bir bak\u0131m yap\u0131l\u0131r, \u00e7eki d\u00fczen verilir akabinde vefal\u0131 dostlar aran\u0131r ve hafta sonuna s\u00fcper bir plan yap\u0131l\u0131r. Foto\u011fraf \u00e7ekmekten e\u011flenemeyenler bile var aram\u0131zda arkada\u015flar! Sonra o foto\u011fraflar eski sevgilinin g\u00f6rebilece\u011fi t\u00fcm sosyal medya hesaplar\u0131nda payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r ve alt\u0131na inan\u0131lmaz e\u011flenildi\u011fine dair yaz\u0131lar yaz\u0131l\u0131r, hatta gidilen her yerde check-in\u2019ler yap\u0131l\u0131r ki k\u0131skans\u0131n.<\/p>\n

4. A\u015eAMA: \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, Yola Devam<\/b>
\nE\u011fer bu a\u015famaya geldiyseniz, tebrikler art\u0131k ger\u00e7ekten ge\u00e7ti! Art\u0131k eski sevgilinin sosyal medya hesaplar\u0131 stalk\u2019lanmaz, onu k\u0131skand\u0131rmak i\u00e7in art\u0131 u\u011fra\u015flara girilmez. Ad\u0131n\u0131 duydu\u011funuzda belki yine de k\u00f6t\u00fc hissedebilirsiniz, bu \u00e7ok normal. Ama art\u0131k her \u015fey ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir. Ger\u00e7ekten yolunuza bakars\u0131n\u0131z, kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131z ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z her \u015feyden daha \u00f6nemli bir hale gelir. Yeni ili\u015fkilere de a\u00e7\u0131ks\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r art\u0131k, ba\u015fkas\u0131yla da olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer siz de hangi a\u015famada oldu\u011funuzu bulduysan\u0131z, \u015fimdi hemen bilgisayar, tablet ya da telefonunuzdan Spotify\u2019a girin ve buradaki a\u015famalara g\u00f6re olu\u015fturulmu\u015f \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131n oldu\u011fu ayr\u0131l\u0131k listemizi dinleyin! Her a\u015famaya ait be\u015f \u015fark\u0131y\u0131 ekledi\u011fimiz listemizin ilk \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131 biraz \u00fczebilir ama emin olun en sonunda dans ederken bulacaks\u0131n\u0131z kendinizi. \ud83d\ude42\u00a0\u015eunu da unutmamak gerekir: ayr\u0131l\u0131k herkesin tecr\u00fcbe etmesi gereken, zamanla geriye d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fcld\u00fcrecek \u00e7ok do\u011fal bir d\u00f6nemdir. Yani ne diyoruz: Hayat devam ediyor!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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