Son y\u0131llarda ya\u015fanan ili\u015fkilerde \u00f6zentilik sendromu denilen psikolojik rahats\u0131zl\u0131k ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. \u0130li\u015fkinin ilerleyen d\u00f6nemlerinde kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ya da erkeklerin bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 kendileriyle k\u0131yaslamas\u0131 sonucu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan ve ili\u015fkinin huzurunu bozan sorunlardan biri haline geldi.<\/p>\n

Peki, \u00f6zentilik sendromu nas\u0131l ba\u015flar ve geli\u015fir?<\/p>\n

Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 diyaloglardan biridir “Hayat\u0131m Ay\u015fe’nin sevgilisi ona \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir kolye alm\u0131\u015f bug\u00fcn bana g\u00f6sterdi ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok ho\u015ftu bende daha g\u00fczel dururdu do\u011frusu” diye ba\u015flayan ve c\u00fcmlenin as\u0131l anlam\u0131 “Hayat\u0131m Ay\u015fe’nin sevgilisi ona \u00e7ok g\u00fczel kolye alm\u0131\u015f sende bana alsan..” demek isteyen kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bir ba\u015fka arkada\u015flar\u0131na \u00f6zenerek bu durumu ili\u015fkisine yans\u0131tmas\u0131 durumu… Bir ba\u015fka \u00f6rnek vermek gerekirse partneriniz\u00a0Melis’in sar\u0131 balyajl\u0131 sa\u00e7lar\u0131na \u00f6zenir kendisine yak\u0131\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi halde bu \u00f6zentilik sendromuyla kuaf\u00f6re ko\u015far ve ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yapar ancak sonu\u00e7 h\u00fcsrand\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu sendrom erkeklerinde zaman zaman ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir durumdur. Erkek diyaloglar\u0131nda ise durum daha \u00e7ok fizyolojiktir “A\u015fk\u0131m Kaan’\u0131n sevgilisi Selin’in sa\u00e7 rengi ne g\u00fczel olmu\u015f sende \u00f6yle boyasan sana daha \u00e7ok yak\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131” erkekler bu konularda daha a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6zl\u00fcd\u00fcr. “Hayat\u0131m ge\u00e7enlerde Esra’y\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm \u00e7ok ho\u015f giyinmi\u015fti sende o tarz tak\u0131lsan diyorum ne g\u00fczel olur”<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte bu tarz istekler bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na \u00f6zentilikten kaynaklanan ve ili\u015fkilerin y\u0131pranmas\u0131na neden olan sendromlard\u0131r. Bundan kurtulmak i\u00e7in k\u0131yaslama yapmadan partnerinizde de\u011fi\u015fmesini istedi\u011finiz \u00f6zellikleri belirtin. Onula beraber al\u0131\u015fveri\u015f yap\u0131n ve be\u011fendi\u011finiz k\u0131yafetleri onlara belirtin. Fakat bu konuda asla zorlay\u0131c\u0131 olmay\u0131n. Birbirinizi zorla de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. Bu konuda k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olmak yerine anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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