Herkesin dilindedir, “Evlilik a\u015fk\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcyor.” Peki madem \u00f6yle, insanlar neden hala evleniyor veya evliliklerini \u00f6lene kadar s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Evlili\u011fi toplumun g\u00f6z\u00fcnde olduk\u00e7a a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7eken bu c\u00fcmlenin do\u011fru olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u00a0Spirit\u00fcel Ya\u015fam Uzman\u0131 G\u00fclden \u00dcner cevaplad\u0131.<\/p>\n

G\u00fclden \u00dcner, senelerdir kabul g\u00f6ren bu s\u00f6ylemin tam aksini savunuyor. Evlili\u011fin a\u015fk\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinin bir yan\u0131lg\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor ve ekliyor.\u00a0\u201cBir ili\u015fkinin \u00fc\u00e7 ayr\u0131 dinami\u011fi vard\u0131r. Bunlardan birincisi ba\u011f kurmak, ikincisi alma vermede dengede olmak, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc ise birlikte bir d\u00fczen kurmak. Bu dinamikler varsa bir ili\u015fkide, evlilik a\u015fk\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrmez, tam tersi a\u015fk\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirebilir.\u201d diyor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok basit gibi durabilir, yaln\u0131z G\u00fclden \u00dcner’in sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu \u00fc\u00e7 kural\u0131 yerine getirebilmek o kadar da kolay de\u011fil. Bunu ba\u015faramayan \u00e7iftlerin a\u015fklar\u0131 bir m\u00fcddet sonra bitebilir. Su\u00e7u evlili\u011fe atmamak gerekir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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