Birini g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz, \u00e7ok be\u011feniyoruz ve hayat\u0131m\u0131za \u00f6zel biri olarak kabul ediyoruz. Her \u015fey \u00e7ok iyi g\u00fczel gidiyor. Fakat daha \u00f6nceden bizim i\u00e7in sorun olmayan \u00f6zellikleri birden g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcze batmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Hemen t\u0131rnaklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p de\u011fi\u015fmesi gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz. Neden?<\/p>\n

Neden daha \u00f6nce sevdi\u011finiz \u00f6zellikleri, sevgili olduktan sonra de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz? Neden sevdi\u011finiz ki\u015fiyi, sevmenizi sa\u011flayan \u00f6zelliklerini yok etmek adeta ba\u015fka biri meydana getirmek arzusundas\u0131n\u0131z? \u0130\u015fte bunun sebebi, asl\u0131nda sizin kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi de\u011fil, kafan\u0131zda yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fiyi sevmeniz. \u0130li\u015fki ba\u015flamadan \u00f6nce fl\u00f6rtle\u015fme a\u015famas\u0131nda ya da sevgilili\u011fin ilk zamanlar\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin sizin kafan\u0131zdaki ki\u015fi oldu\u011funu zannediyorsunuz ve m\u00fcdahalede bulunmuyorsunuz. Fakat ili\u015fki ilerledikten sonra g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131yor ve baz\u0131 huylar\u0131 size batmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. \u0130\u015fte bu nedenle yapman\u0131z gereken ili\u015fki ba\u015flamadan hemen \u00f6nce g\u00f6zlerinizi d\u00f6rt a\u00e7man\u0131z. Hayat\u0131n\u0131za alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi kafan\u0131zda yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fiye uyuyor mu? Ona objektif bir g\u00f6zle bakabildiniz mi? Bu sorular\u0131n cevaplar\u0131n\u0131 aray\u0131n ve de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaksan\u0131z, sevmeyin.<\/p>\n

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