Evlendi\u011fi ki\u015finin ideal e\u015fi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnenler ya da hen\u00fcz evlenebilece\u011fi ideal e\u015fi bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnenler art\u0131k \u00fcz\u00fclmesin. Zira ideal e\u015fi araman\u0131n do\u011fru de\u011fil.<\/p>\n

Her insan birbirinden farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla kimsenin beklentileri, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, hayat g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc birbirinin t\u0131pat\u0131p ayn\u0131 olamaz. \u0130deal e\u015ften beklenen ise bunlar\u0131n hepsinin ve daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131n birebir uymas\u0131. O halde kimse ideal e\u015fini hi\u00e7bir zaman bulamayacak. Evlenirken bak\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyle bizim, hayat g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizin ortak bir noktada birle\u015fip birle\u015femedi\u011fi. Birle\u015febildi\u011fi \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde ideallik var demektir. Ama tamamen ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ararsan\u0131z, \u00f6yle bir \u015fey bulamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 garanti edebiliriz.<\/p>\n

Farkl\u0131 fikirlere sahip olmak korkulacak bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Kli\u015fedir ama \u00e7ok do\u011frudur, sayg\u0131 her \u015feydir. Sayg\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011fu yerde farkl\u0131 fikirlere de ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc vard\u0131r. Sayg\u0131 en \u00e7ok \u00e7iftler aras\u0131nda olmas\u0131 gereken de\u011ferlerden biridir. Bunu kaybetmeyen her \u00e7ift birbirinin idealidir.<\/p>\n

\u0130deal e\u015fi bulma konusunda ise beklentiyi \u00e7ok y\u00fcksek tutmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne kadar y\u00fcksek olursa, beklentileriniz kar\u015f\u0131lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z da o kadar y\u00fcksek olur. Her zaman \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc olmay\u0131 ilke edinin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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