Bireylerde g\u00fcven duygusunun hen\u00fcz anne karn\u0131ndayken olu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen Psikiyatri Uzman\u0131 Do\u00e7. Dr. Hakan Atalay, anne karn\u0131nda ba\u015flayan bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te annenin, bebe\u011fine kar\u015f\u0131 \u2018yeterince iyi\u2019 olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirtti. Anne- \u00e7ocuk aras\u0131ndaki bu ili\u015fkinin, bireyin ilerideki ili\u015fkilerini etkiledi\u011fini de vurgulayan Do\u00e7. Dr. Hakan Atalay, \u00f6nemli bilgiler verdi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde h\u0131zla geli\u015fen bilimsel alanlardan biri, beyin bilimleri dedi\u011fimiz aland\u0131r. Beyin \u00fczerine yap\u0131lan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar ise zihinle ilgili kuramlara (onun yap\u0131s\u0131, i\u015fleyi\u015fi, geli\u015fimi) \u0131\u015f\u0131k tutuyor. Bu zihin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131nda da kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za en \u00f6nemli konulardan biri olan, \u2018ba\u011flanma\u2019 kavram\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

BEBE\u011e\u0130N ANNE \u0130LE OLAN BA\u011eI, D\u00dcNYAYA G\u00dcVEN DUYMASINI SA\u011eLAR<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bebe\u011fin, \u00f6ncelikle annesi, ebeveynleri ve akranlar\u0131yla kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkiler sayesinde \u00f6nce \u00e7ocukluk, sonra ergenlik d\u00f6nemlerindeki g\u00f6revlerini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirerek kimlik sahibi bir birey haline geldi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen Do\u00e7. Dr. Hakan Atalay, \u201cBu bireyle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinin ilk temelleri, genler ve hamilelikte ya\u015fananlar ile at\u0131l\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuk d\u00fcnyaya geldikten sonra 1-2 sene i\u00e7erisinde ise ki\u015fili\u011finin temel \u00f6zelliklerini kazan\u0131yor. Bu d\u00f6nemde anne-bebek ikili sistemi ne kadar iyi \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rsa, bu temeller de o kadar sa\u011flam oluyor. \u00d6rne\u011fin, bebek annesiyle g\u00fcvenli bir ba\u011flanma ili\u015fkisi geli\u015ftirdi\u011finde, kendisini ve d\u00fcnyay\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde ay\u0131rt eden, kendisindeki ve \u00f6tekilerdeki iyi ve k\u00f6t\u00fc y\u00f6nleri kavray\u0131p kabullenen ve kendisine ve d\u00fcnyaya g\u00fcven duyan bir birey olarak hayata ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Annesinin \u201cyeterince iyi\u201d anneli\u011fi sayesinde duygular\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131may\u0131, e\u015f duyum geli\u015ftirmeyi, \u00f6tekilerini en az\u0131ndan asgari d\u00fczeyde tan\u0131y\u0131p anlamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freniyor\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

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B\u0130REY\u0130N GELECEKTEK\u0130 \u0130L\u0130\u015eK\u0130LER\u0130N\u0130 ETK\u0130LER<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anne ile \u00e7ocuk aras\u0131nda kurulan g\u00fcvenli bir ba\u011f\u0131n, ki\u015finin daha sonraki ili\u015fkilerini de etkileyece\u011fini vurgulayan Atalay, \u201cErgenlik d\u00f6neminde, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilk y\u0131llar\u0131ndan ba\u015flayarak sonraki geli\u015fimsel g\u00f6revlerini yeniden g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irme ve d\u00fczeltme f\u0131rsat\u0131 do\u011fuyor. T\u00fcm bu s\u00fcre\u00e7leri ba\u015far\u0131yla atlatan birey, eri\u015fkinlik ili\u015fkilerinde de kendisine ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131na g\u00fcvenen, kendisini ve \u00f6tekileri iyi ve k\u00f6t\u00fc y\u00f6nleriyle tan\u0131y\u0131p kabullenen ve hayat\u0131n\u0131 kendisini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirerek ya\u015fayan biri haline geliyor. Tersi durumlarda, yani, diyelim ki, g\u00fcvensiz ba\u011flanma \u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fclerine tak\u0131l\u0131p kalan ki\u015fi ise kendisini ve \u00f6tekileri hep yarg\u0131layan, g\u00fcvensiz ve kayg\u0131l\u0131 biri olarak hayat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yor\u201d \u015feklinde a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131. Psikiyatri Uzman\u0131 Do\u00e7. Dr. Hakan Atalay, ailelere, \u201cToplum olarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bireyler olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsak, onlara \u00f6ncelikli olarak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bar\u0131nma, beslenme, e\u011fitilme, vb. fiziksel ko\u015fullar sa\u011flamakla kalmay\u0131p, bunlarla da yak\u0131ndan ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 bir \u015fekilde, kendisine g\u00fcvenli, gelecek kayg\u0131s\u0131ndan ya da g\u00fcncel tart\u0131\u015fmalardan uzak kalabilecek, kendine g\u00fcven duyan bir anneli\u011fin ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in elimizden geleni yapmal\u0131y\u0131z\u201d \u00f6nerisinde bulundu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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