\u00c7ocuk a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k atar, surat\u0131 k\u0131zar\u0131r, ellerini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck yumruklarla s\u0131kar, g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6zlerinden ya\u011fmur gibi bo\u015fal\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aksili\u011fin tetikleyicisi mi? Konu\u015fmaya bile de\u011fmez.<\/p>\n

B\u00f6yle anlarda, ebeveynler bazen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 gibi tepki vermek istiyor: Sadece kendilerini yerden yere at\u0131p \u00e7ocuklara ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yorlar.<\/p>\n

Bir \u00e7ok anne, ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklara ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n a\u011flamay\u0131 b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131yor. ANCAK: Bu ger\u00e7ekten do\u011fru bir yol mudur? Veya ebeveynlerin ger\u00e7ekten dikkate almas\u0131 gereken ba\u015fka ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 var m\u0131d\u0131r?<\/p>\n

BILD ” “Alman Gazetesi “sizin i\u00e7in ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

E\u011fitim dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 Martina Leibovici-M\u00fchlberger \u201dHay\u0131r, bebek ya da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, onlar gibi geri ba\u011f\u0131rmak, \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k atmak vb. gibi hareketler iyi bir fikir de\u011fildir\u201d diyor.<\/p>\n

Bebeklere Ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131lmamas\u0131 Gerekir<\/h3>\n

Leibovici-M\u00fchlberger a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor: \u201dBebekler, konu\u015famad\u0131klar\u0131ndan ebeveynlerine neye ihtiya\u00e7 duyduklar\u0131n\u0131 a\u011flayarak belirtirler. Her anne farkl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131n ne anlama geldi\u011fini bilir. A\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131, a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u0131slak bezin \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201d<\/strong>Bir \u00e7ocuk a\u011flamaya ba\u015flarsa, bize ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu bildirir. E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fa ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131rsak, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelmi\u015f ve onun g\u00fcveni sarsm\u0131\u015f oluruz. Endi\u015fe, korkun\u00e7 hale gelir ve genellikle yutma veya sindirim problemleri ya\u015fan\u0131r.\u201d Diye uyar\u0131yor Martina.<\/p>\n

Dikkat: \u00c7ocuklar Onlara Ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda Agresif Olurlar<\/h3>\n

Leibovici-M\u00fchlberger: \u201dBir \u00e7ocuk \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k atarsa \u200b\u200bve ebeveynleri geri ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131rsa, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yanl\u0131\u015f bir mesaj verirler. Yani, seslerin y\u00fckseldi\u011fi ortamda \u015fiddet hakim olur.\u201d<\/p>\n

Peki Ebeveynlerin Bunun Yerine Ne Yapmas\u0131 Gerekir?<\/h3>\n

E\u011fitim uzman\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nerisine g\u00f6re: \u201dBu tamamen duruma ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00dc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuk tipik bir \u00f6fke evresindeyken ebeveynler bir s\u00fcre beklemelidir. \u00c7ocu\u011fu kucaklar\u0131na al\u0131p, neden a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorabilirler. Sekiz ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocuk ise duygular\u0131n\u0131 kelimelerle ifade edebilir. Markette \u00e7ikolata istedi\u011fi i\u00e7in a\u011flamaya ba\u015flayan \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 tavr\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeyin. Bunun yerine, \u00e7ocu\u011fa yerini g\u00f6stermelisiniz. Tipik bir c\u00fcmle ile bu yap\u0131labilir.<\/p>\n

“\u00c7ikolatay\u0131 almana izin vermicem \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k 8 ya\u015f\u0131ndas\u0131n”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ebeveynler bazen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n sinirli hallerine a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 derecede gerilirler, \u00f6rne\u011fin b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn d\u0131\u015far\u0131da olduklar\u0131nda ve \u00e7ocuk geceleri uyuyamad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda. Leibovici M\u00fchlberger: \u201dAk\u015famlar\u0131 sabr\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ta\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ipucu: Bu gibi durumlarda velileri yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ocu\u011fun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 daha \u00e7ok dinlemelerini ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n bir \u00e7ocuk olmas\u0131na izin vermelerini \u00f6nerebilirim.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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